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So, it's a long story between he and I. We met in middle school and things took a serious, intimate turn in high school. We were each other's world. I moved to another school our sophomore year but that didn't stop us from being there for each other every step of the way. Sadly, we lost contact halfway through our senior year when some drama went down in my family. I've now finished my second year in college and we've found each other again. We picked up right where we left off like nothing ever happened and it was effortless. However, while I wasn't there for a couple years, he did start things with another woman about 4 or 5 months ago (we only got back in contact a couple weeks to a month ago). They seemed to have pulled each other out of whatever funk they'd gotten themselves into through phone calls and Skype calls (because we're in Texas while she's in Canada). I don't believe they've ever actually met in person. Anyways, she just left an abusive boyfriend yesterday for him and now he doesn't know what to do because "she's been fighting for something like this and has earned a good guy." But at the same time, he says he loves me and doesn't want to lose me again because he can't bear the thought. The thing is, I see it as like she saw him starting to be happy without her and she got jealous enough to act after he'd already had his mind and heart set on me. He didn't even see her as an option until last night after he got home from our date because it wasn't like she was ever going to leave the other guy anyways so why wait around? But now that she's suddenly done this, he tells me he doesn't know what to do. I don't want to lose a man I connect with so well, who makes me feel appreciated and respected like nobody else ever has. What do I do? She wants him to drop everything and move up to Canada to be with her. How long do I sit here and be patient for?