Why I literally don't care about having a relationship at all

[Anonymous]

Have you ever been surrounded by people who care so much about something, and realized that you're just not that into it? That's me when it comes to relationships.

(I would abandon all ideals for Mark Mcmorris)

I hear my friends talking about picking schools based on their boyfriends, and I've only had one "official" relationship in my life. It lasted two months, and I honestly did not like that guy as more than a friend. I simply do not know a single guy who I would be comfortable entering an intimate relationship with. I just don't feel the need to date any guys. I find a lot of guys that I just wish I could be platonic with, but that never seems to work out. It's also very impracticle to date right now. Why would I start a relationship with someone when I know I am going to be moving in 5 months? All it would do is end to heartbreak. I've had my heart set on my dreams for years, I'm not going to push them off just because for four months I've been into a guy. Chances are, it won't work out anyway. There's plenty of other people out there who are probably better, I just haven't met them yet. Everyone is so worked up over who's done what with who, when I have only kissed one guy once and we weren't dating, and it was probably awful for him. I just really don't understand the whole relationship dynamic. Everyone is so afraid of being "forever alone". I have no problem with living my life independently, I am happy on my own, I don't need a guy to complete that. Girls I know get so worked up when they're not in a relationship, thinking that they're "losers" because "no one likes them".

I don't see it like this. I have my own mess to figure out, let alone spend my time trying to be good to the other person. I mean, occasionally I see a hot guy out and about, but I'm so bad at talking to guys that nothinge ever becomes of it. For those of you who are out there sad because you aren't in relationships, I just want to tell you it's really no big deal.

[DarkHumorRUs]

Well, you have fun with that.

But personally I would like kids, and I'd like a wife to spend the rest of my life with. It is a big deal to me. It just is.