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Since I was 18 my hair began thinning from a scalp condition. So at 19 I took a plunge and shaved it to the skin. I've tried being confident with it but I know looks do factor in for people I'm no different-and can't blame a girl for thinking the same. And I just really think that most girls this age wouldn't give thought to dating the bald guy, not saying they'd ignore him or be rude but just that, if a girls attractive and I like her, she can easily have plenty of guys WITH hair at this age so they'd do a whole 'I'm not a fan... But someone will be!' line to me, I'm sorry if that's sounding condescending but I'm tired of hearing it. I feel like for women below thirty this will really be a turnoff. So young women would you date a bald guy? (Keep in mind it's shaved not balding) could you even be attracted to one at this age? Honesty, even if it's negative is appreciated if it's respectful. Before you post really consider if one approached you at a party or on the street and was showing interest and what you'd truly say.

It's a long story but I had a benign medical condition that cause head hair to diffusely thin, unfortunately the follicles were permanently damaged in my case so given how thin it was I shaved it off, to the skin. People say it looks good on me (I was surprised because I'm a skinny white guy, tone but not much muscle mass) I don't try to hide it or anything, I'm not afraid to go out and don't wear hats hardly ever, and new people I started working with even say looking back at pictures when I had thick hair, before they knew me, that they actually prefer this look on me. Truthfully I actually prefer it too except for one aspect, what will the girls my age who I find attractive think? I want honesty, I admit that looks are a factor to me and a door to something deeper with someone, and I am no hypocrite I know it works both ways. I've been told back and forth so much I really need to know if this is a deal breaker for dating, see it sounds corny but one of my biggest goals was to be married in my 20's to a woman i was very attracted to body and mind. And I want to know if this puts that in danger. So ladies, could you give a guy who shaved it skin a shot? Is it a dealbreaker, will it put me at a severe disadvantage? Or can it be attractive and I'm worrying too much? And if any guy who stumbles on here has shaved your head, what was your experience like with it? Be honest please people, thanks for your time.

Now I wanna make it clear that there's a difference between liking and being attracted. I obviously like all races and the reason for that should be obvious. I can and have friends of basically all ethnic groups so yeah just wanna make that clear. There's just some races which I don't find physicaly attractive. Because well there are some physical distinctions which all people of a race share. This could be skin or hair color or nose shape or general jawline shape or w/e. There's simply some of these racial distinctions which I find incredibly physicaly unattractive making it very unlikely to be attracted to a person or that race because they 99% of the have that/those features. And Im not gonna say which race/races because I dont wanna hurt anyones feelings. But that doesn't mean I wouldn't be willing to date people or any race. For example I like dark hair and eyes a lot but I would still not have any problems with dating a girl from where I live where not many have that. Because I mean looks aren't everything. And I don't think there''s anything weird about this. I mean one girl might love dark skin and then they are very unlikely to find a lighter skin preson attractive. And one might love light skin etc. Etc.