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Me and this girl work together she has always been flirty with me along with other guys, but it always seemed a bit diff with me. Mainly because i never go out of my way to show affection especially at work. she would say things like "ok dont say hi to me" or "ok dont hug me w/e", or my personal fav "its ok all the other girls are after you dont worry about me". anyways we ended up hanging out past 3 nights after work. first two went great, especially the second time. we hung out 1 on 1 for hours and we both told eachother some pretty deep stuff about ourselves. we txted the same night and i let her know im shocked i told her some of those things and she said "same, im not usually one to open up either, but its ok now we are both vunerable" ) its obvious we like eachother to an extent (i think?). tonight she told me to text her after work and we would hang out. i txted her and didn't hear back for like 4 hours (i didn't send her a lot txts like a lot guys do when she doesn't reply). she said her phone was dead and that she was sorry (i dont believe it but w/e aha) and she told me to meet her at a place. i told her ok id be there soon cuz i was at a small get together with other friends. i ended up leaving 30-45 mins later. got there and the vibe just seemed different. maybe moreso on my end than hers cuz i didn't buy the phone thing etc. we hang out for like an hour then her, her girlfriend, and her gf's boyfriend went outside to smoke a bowl and i waited a bit 15-20 mins and thought to myself why am i here for this? so i left without saying a word to meet back up with my friends who i wrongfully left in the first place. was this a dick/wrong move on my part? i dont want to play games, i feel its obvious we both are into eachother so why do that?

sidenote: Im not use to getting attention from girls like i have been now that i lost a lot weight this past year. im really shy/lack confidence but i guess i dont show it. i do feel nervous though. I dunno what

You've date your girlfriend for 4 years and she has always been chubby (over 200 lbs) and self conscious about her weight.

You try to be a supportive boyfriend and help her get over her hangups by encouraging her to go to the gym. Fast forward 6-7 months and your girlfriend is now 7.5-8/10.

Not long after she post this on her tumblr page.


Your Girlfriend continue your relationship as normal for a couple moneth before she embarks on a 2 month vacation to Miami without you. During this time she posts selfies in clubs and bars with other guys on her Instagram. Your girlfriend takes one last pic of boyfriend calling him "the man of her dreams".


girlfriend returns home 2 months later and breaks up with you within a weeks and has a new boyfriend by the end of the month. You only find out about him via checking her instagram. How would you feel?



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