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So I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years
Ever since we got official, we post pictures of us on social media
But on February, we broke up and then he deactivated all his social media (facebook and instagram)
We were still seeing each other as friends - going out to movie, etc
But then 3 months later, we got back together
So anyways, he is still not on any social media because he says he doesn't need it right now but he will be back on social media on November since there's a big event for us

But today, we had this conversation:
Him - babe I don't want you taking random pictures of me and putting it on social media. I didn't like it that you took a random photo of me cooking last night and put it on social media
Me - so you don't want me to put our pictures up?
Him - I don't mind if it's a group photo or a couple photo of us, but if it's a random photo of me doing something, I don't like it. You don't tell me when you take a photo of me and that's not nice. And plus, I don't want to be on social media. I don't want my photo up anywhere on social media
Me - why you making a big deal?
Him - There's a reason why I'm not on social media. I don't want anyone knowing what I'm doing. It's none of their business
Me - Ok? It's like you don't want people to know about us?
Him - Are you serious? Everyone knows about you. People at my work and even my exes. Remember how one of my exes stalked your instagram? How do you think she found out?
Me - She found me on your instagram
Him - yeah exactly, so she knows who you are, and if she wants to stalk me again , but I'm not on social media anymore, she will stalk you
Me - right... ok
Him - I just don't want my pictures to be up on social media right now. I will be back on it on November, so please don't upload any random photos of me next time. And plus, we are planning to do a fitness couple photoshoot so I will put our pictures up on my facebook and instagram. I just don't want pictures of me right now.

Is this shady?