Search Results: overwhelming life

Tips for Dealing with Anxiety and Dating?

I am diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder and dating just is impossible for me. As soon as I start to like a guy I feel physically sick and just ready to cry and break down. Plus I start assuming that they actually...

OldTimeFlicksChick

Xper 5 Age: 31

Why are females not encouraged to achieve in American culture?

“Be the CEO your parents wanted you to marry”. Throughout history, women were conditioned by society to be housewives. Though things aren’t the same anymore nowadays , we still see remnants of this culture of the old...

nelly83

Xper 6 Age: 30

I think I'm overreacting?

First of all, I'm asking this because I don't want to simp or let this girl control me. But we can be texting perfectly fine in messages. Equal carry of the convo, but then she would post on her story something like, the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Intellectual women are a turn off to so many men because they are boring, overwhelming, and "too difficult" - agree or disagree?

From what I've gathered, a few of the reasons many/most men don't like intellectual types are that they are perceived to be boring, conversations are too intense or serious (especially if she has a penchant for depth),...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I feel guilty for not posting about Black Lives Matter?

I have been off of Instagram for two months now because it was hurting my mental health, but logged back in to see what people are posting about the update. Then my depression sunk deeper and I am deeply in pain for black...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I give him and our relationship a chance?

I was already giving up on love and finding a man who is compatible to my unique personality by the time this guy texted me over a dating app. We clicked instantly and so well that I remember jokingly asking him: so yeah...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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(Please read the whole thing, and the update to question.) Will, I ever get over my past friends with benefits And stop loving him?

I use to post so much about my friends with benefits and his behavior and the situation between us, on this site. People, have have help me and gave me some good advice and encourage me to move forwards. basically they...

Erica34

Explorer Age: 34

I need advice? Is it bad that I feel this way?

earlier today was the first time my boyfriend and I talked about "the future" like any normal couples do. we've talked about it before but it was never as specific as this one. we've been together for 11 months. I don't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Religion & Spirituality

3 reasons to criticize religion, from an atheist perspective:

I’ve been asked countless times “why do you criticize religion? Why don’t you just keep your opinions to yourself”? — Well, it’s true I do love a good debate especially with the religious on here, mainly perhaps because...

Tamera952

Guru Age: 41

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Other

Did I overthink?

Last year before new years i attended a party which was arranged by the classmates of my college and some juniors and some seniors and some who were still studying there. The think is i am really dominant in life in...

Zenofthesun

Xper 2 Age: 32

Would you rather dealing with seven tragedies in one year or one tragedy a year for seven years? And why?

The events of 2020 have been overwhelming for some and challenging for others. Between dealing with a pandemic, losing jobs, bad economy, isolation, wars, wildfires, political division and poverty. Just to name few....

mindNsoul

Explorer Age: 37

Education & Career

How do you deal with being stressed out?

I work and go to school at the same time. Since this lockdown stuff happened I've been focusing on work more. I let my school work pile up and it's just so overwhelming. It was a vicious cycle. I got stressed out from...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Do they not like the fact that I am doing better things?

Long story short: i realised I didn’t want to live a life of partying and smoking etc because i simply wanted to focus on my work. So i started distancing myself with no explanation ( cuz i know they wouldn't get it)...

Ria23

Xper 4 Age: 25

Guy I've been speaking to over a month dumped me because his dad's girlfriend/stepmum 'evaluated' him and told him he's not ready for a relationship?

We met onTinder and haven't been able to meet IRLcuz corona. It lasted 5weeks. We had so much in common it was scary. We got on well, and both kept saying how the odds were so small to meet someone so similar to you....

hime889

Xper 4 Age: 30

Is it worth fighting the friendship back I lost due to having strong feelings for her?

I know this is unrelated but I need your advice because I'm dealing with a difficult heartbreak. If you're reading this, I know many of you experience heartbreaks and losing a good friendship. I miss this special person...

Castillocn33

Xper 3 Age: 26