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I used to talk to this girl a while ago. In the beginning everything was going good. We liked each other. We talked on the phone almost every other day and text everyday. Then she broke up with her boyfriend a month ago I think and everything’s just went downhill. We don’t text as much as we used to and haven’t talked on the phone since like end of December. Jan 2nd she told me she really likes me and we can have definitely have something in the future. But rn she had to pay attention to her mental health and there's some things going on that she doesn't want me getting caught up in. So, I gave her space. She ended up texting me on facebook telling me why she hasn't been talking and then a few days after she texting me on Instagram telling me why she hasn't been talking and that she's been really depressed. She said she feels shitty that she stops talking to people when she's depressed. I told her i missed her and she said she missed me too. I don't know if she actually did. But, two days ago I told her how I feel and she said she's on life's train rn and tbh I deserve better then her. I said no I don't you're perfect for me. She said lol I'm not perfect. I said that's Bs yes you're. Okay but do you have feelings for me? She said I don't know that's the problem. I don't know my feelings there everywhere and it's confusing. So then I said oh and asked if she still liked me? She said I don't know. How does she not know when she said she does a month ago? Then at 4am I texted her and said do you still want to talk in general or do you want me to go away? She said I don't have to go away. So, I don't know if I should give her space or just give up.

I used to talk to this girl a while ago. In the beginning everything was going good. We liked each other. We talked on the phone almost every other day and text everyday. Then she broke up with her boyfriend a month ago I think and everything’s just went downhill. We don’t text as much as we used to and haven’t talked on the phone since like end of December. Jan 2nd she told me she really likes me and we can have definitely have something in the future. But rn she had to pay attention to her mental health and there's some things going on that she doesn't want me getting caught up in. So, I gave her space. She ended up texting me on facebook telling me why she hasn't been talking and then a few days after she texting me on Instagram telling me why she hasn't been talking and that she's been really depressed. She said she feels shitty that she stops talking to people when she's depressed. I told her i missed her and she said she missed me too. I don't know if she actually did. But, two days ago I told her how I feel and she said she's on life's train rn and tbh I deserve better then her. I said no I don't you're perfect for me. She said lol I'm not perfect. I said that's Bs yes you're. Okay but do you have feelings for me? She said I don't know that's the problem. I don't know my feelings there everywhere and it's confusing. So then I said oh and asked if she still liked me? She said I don't know. How does she not know when she said she does a month ago? Then at 4am I texted her and said do you still want to talk in general or do you want me to go away? She said I don't have to go away. So, I don't know if I should give her space or just give up.

So my girlfriend... while she is undoubtly a beautiful woman, and she does her best to keep her legs/body silky smooth and hairless, as a human being she just can't help that it grows back.

Many of my guy friends completely turn down their gf's when their legs aren't shaved, making them feel so ashamed that they go shave instantly.

But I... I'm not like that. In that aspect I'm better than them. I just sleep with her as I normally would. Plus, since we truly love each other we're able to accept that we're not 100% perfect.

It's admittedly not as thrilling, as I'd rather feel soft skin than body hair... but I love her way too much to let her down over something so trivial and natural.

However, that doesn't mean I don't LOVE IT when she DOES shave her legs.

It's then like, "Oh yeah! Your legs are so smooth and perfect looking! Not a single hair and they glow a bit! I like to hold them and rub my face on them and feel them all day!" Plus, my girlfriend naturally has good skin and moisturizes to make them even softer... making things even better.

But still, when she DOESN'T shave I don't put her down. I still make love to her the same way. I just don't pay so attention specifically to her legs.