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I'm 22, average looking asian, 130lbs, 5'6", a Christian, I don't party, I don't drink, never clubbed, never been kissed, virgin obviously, been single for 5 years. I'm into filmmaking, photography, cooking, coffee and travelling. I'm not a nerd though. What do you think about me? Guys, would you date someone with this kind of description? Please comment respectfully.

So, four years ago, when I was 16 I visited this church. Important: I was shy and anxious. That summer, I went on a trip with them to a Christian camp. That's when I met RJ. We got to know eachother and bonded over baptism. Early in the week he decided to be baptized. I eventually also did, choosing him to baptize me.

After that, he changed. He was talking to me closely and holding my hand too friendly during prayer. I was terrified but, developed a crush. Flash forward to Rj's birthday party. I was so shy that while the teens chilled downstairs, I played with my neice and Rj's little brother. Rj didn't talk to me until I finally went outside with the teens. He was talking close to me about boarding. It was hard to talk. Hot, confident guy talking to me. Rj tried and tried but, I was too anxious. He walked away seeming upset. Turns out, he had planned to ask me out that day. Yes, I blew it.

I waited to long to tell Rj my feelings. He found a girlfriend and eventually stopped going to church. Every now and them, he would pop up. He was distant with everyone especially me. Sometimes, he pretended I wasn't there at all. I did message Rj on social media and once too much. Up until a year ago, he never replied. Sometimes now we text a lot or he just won't reply.

Now, we are both grown up, and recently, both single. This past week, my friend and I decided to visit our old church camp. Naturally, Rj popped up. Turns out he was looking for our group. When he saw us, he locked eyes on me, ran to hug my friend and then me. There was a girl very close to him the whole time... Rj barely spoke to me the rest of the night but it felt all to personal. I did catch him staring when I would look. When we left, Rj didn't acknowledge it much. I felt empty. Honestly, the same feelings never left and they have gotten too big to handle.

I always felt that since that party, he treats me different. Why is that? Also, should I try to confess to him or is it too late?

I've been single for three years and honestly, I like the single life. Relationships are a lot of work. My best friend told me that her boyfriend wanted to hook me up with his friend and we both like Christian music. Her boyfriend asked me if I wanted to go out with his friend and we both love Christian music. I texted him that I'm not ready for a relationship right now and I'm going with what my heart tells me but thanks anyways. He hasn't texted me back yet. I'm 24 going to be 25 this November. I have plenty of time to find a man. Also, I don't want to lead his friend on or hurt him. I don't want to do that. I had a boyfriend, but it didn't work out and tried our best to work on the relationship. I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 21. I like the single life and I don't want anybody to hook me up. I don't want to be single forever, but I don't need a man to make me happy. I hope I did the right thing.