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So my boyfriend has been my best friend for 5 years. In high school we dated for about 2 years. Then we broke up for 2 years. Now we've been dating for almost a year again. Best friends through it all, and friends with benefits for a while.

But I just found out I'm high school he cheated on me for a few months before breaking up with me. And he then basically dated the girl for that summer when we were broken up. They were just talking, hanging out, and kissing on the cheek. This girl became my friend once we broke up and was like the main one I leaned on and who supported me through the break up, me never knowing. I suspected he was with another girl but he would never tell me who. After all this time I just found out this month, and we talked through it and everything. I can forgive them, but I don't know if I can get over it and forget it. It sucks bc this relationship we've had now has been amazing, much better than when we were young and dumb, we've been really happy and healthy. I don't want to give that up for something that happened a long time ago, but I can't trust him now (i already have trust issues from childhood trauma!) And i don't want to be that toxic girlfriend who always goes through his phone, i hate that. But that's how I found out, because I suspected it still and it still hurt not knowing and he let me go through his phone so I found out. But since he lied to me for so long it just makes me sick to think it barely affects him now and he never would've told me. Also back then, they broke it off bc he never stopped loving me and realized he never liked her like that he'd just think of me, and he broke his heart talking to other guys. So I don't know. What would you do in my situation?

I received a Twitter friend request however I never really used or post Twitter except to read about memes or events or stuff like that. So when I received the request I saw that it was from someone I didn’t know who had no picture.

The account had just been made and no following or followers. But the username was spelled just like my ex name minus one letter. So I messaged the person because I was suspicious and ask them who is this? They said oh I’m dedmond but my friends call me dezi ( his name is Dezmond like seriously) I just added you because I saw you in my feed and thought you were cute.

I’m pretty sure when you start a new account you don’t have feed. Plus since he has friends why didn’t he add them to create following instead of a stranger. I said oh that’s okay just saw you opened this account and I wasn’t sure I knew you.

I asked him where he was from he told me nyc ( my ex is in another state ) I told him where I was from and I asked his age he told me 19 ( my ex is older) I told him I was 22 and I was winter baby, I asked him what his birthday he told me November 6th (my ex bday in September) so at this point I start thinking okay maybe it’s not him.

Maybe just a 19 year old from nyc whose trying to make friends? so we’re having a conversation about likes and dislikes and all of sudden. He had blocked me and deactivated the account.

The reason I’m concerned because my ex and me have been broken up for 2 years, he’s in a relationship and I have moved on. The last time we talked was last year and he invited me to see him but then blocked me I decide it was best to get over things and MOVE ON so I did. He also friend requested me on Snapchat this summer then watch my stories and block em after.

I dated someone else for awhile it didn’t work out but I was okay, focused on school work mental health and family and friends so I’m happy right now. Could he have been looking for closure?