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I'm not one of those women who strive for a white man in their life, but I've always wanted to date a white guy. Guys that have found me attractive are either black, hispanic, Asian, etc... My recently ex-boyfriend had white skin tone, but his family is from Italy, first-generations, they all had that rich Italian culture, so I don't really consider that "white". Anyways, back to my point, my best friend who I might have interest in has always dated white girls, compliments mainly white girls, and the guys in the clique we hangout with mainly "go" for white girls unless they're just looking for a hookup.. He's not racist or anything, considering our closeness, and we have an interracial social group and all... but I just want to know, not because I'm hoping he could be interested in me. Additionally, if there were two woman, one white, one black/asian/etc... both gorgeous, both with similar amazing personalities, which would they go for? I'm Indonesian/Brazilian, and so I'm kinda tan if that matters lol.

Which would you prefer, and who would you approach?
(GUYS)
You are at a black-tie event and two girls stood out to you:
1st girl: mid twenties, long wavvy dark hair and dark eyes, red lipstick, heels, and a white form flattering dress that modestly covers her in all the right places. nice breasts, nice ass. no tattoos, but she has diamond earrings. She smiles, she's polite, and knows what she wants so she can be very direct. You can clearly tell she knows how to support herself by the way she carries herself and her designer handbag. You always find her in the big crowd or with an attractive man that is trying to pick up on her. She is a coy major flirt so she flirts with you but you feel like she's out of your league.
She boldly looks in your eyes with a sly smile and hands you her number, "call me for some fun"
2nd girl: mid twenties, she has short light brown hair and blue eyes. Those beautiful eyes stand out against her perfectly tan skin on a fit body, she looks friendly and sweet. She wears a black pencil shirt and a crop top, ballet flats, under her right arm is a tattoo quote. She might have more tattoos hidden. she's shy, and quiet, you find her away from all the crowd hidden in the back smoking weed, once you talk to her you find that she's very chill and opens up when you compliment her, cultured and she's very funny, but with a sharp sarcastic bite. She sounds like she'd be down to have fun. You trade numbers and she says "You should comeover and we could watch Parks and Recreation or Bobs Burgers, we could eat pizza"

You know who appealed to you more, who would you prefer? who would you approach?
WHAT DO YOU THINK YOUR CHOICE SAYS ABOUT YOU?

I was born in Thailand but I mixed with Cambodia (father's side, however my father was also born in Thailand) So anyway, I moved to United States since I was 7, and people keep saying, "OMG! I love your skin color!" Me, myself in my mind was llike what? I became popular in America, but not in Thailand. And it's kinda weird cause the Chinese girl (really really pale skin) that go to my school, get bulllies all the time, I go to school with 90 % white, 4 % Hispanic, 4 % black and 2% Asian. People in Thailand likes pale skinned people, they think tanned people like Cambodian are low class. My high school and middle school friends considered me as, "Pocahontas." Some said that I have Pipa Middleton smile, Mila Kunis eyes, Pocahontas body and skin color, eyes color, and hair color (basically color lol) I'm not sure if they're taking it offensive or not or do they really think I have a perfect skin color when in Thailand, they disliked tanned skin people when they are tanned skin themselves lol. Do you perfect pale Asian or tanned?