Why do black women hate white women?

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Im not saying all black women are like this but there are a good few who literally hate white women just because they're white? Yes i know this can work both ways like white women can hate black women just because they're black but what i mean by it is black women are more aggressive with it meaning they hold themselves higher then white women and i dont get why? Like for example if there was a fight between a black women and a white women most people would bet that the black women would win the fight why is that? Because they're more aggressive? I just dont get it, also they think that white women are always trying to copy them for example "Twerking" black women did not create twerking it was latino women who created it, if a white women gets lip injections that means she was to be black, if a white women gets bum implants she wants to be black, if a white women tans then she wants to be black, but if a black women straightens her hair or gets hair extensions or bleaches her skin then its fine she's not trying to copy anybody? What is up with this double standards?

existing_not_living · Accepted Answer

"If a black women straightens her hair or gets hair extensions or bleaches her skin then its fine she's not trying to copy anybody?"

- We are judged for all of this. If we straighten our hair or get extensions, then we get judged for it. Some of us get ridiculed for trying to fit in. We can't seem to please the world at all. I've worn extensions before and I have gotten judged harshly by white women and white men and by my own race. If a white woman were to do the same, they would not get the same judgement as I do. It's not exactly a great feeling. Both white and black women deal with the same hate, just in different ways.

--My sister is always stressing out about her hair frizzing because she is in the working world now and has to look presentable for her job and her curly natural hair is not suitable for the work place. She has to straighten her hair in order to look professional. I know plenty of other black females and even white females who straighten their hair too because that is what is acceptable in the work force.

"Also they think that white women are always trying to copy them for example "Twerking" black women did not create twerking it was latino women who created it."
- Twerking is a dance move that originates from West Africa.

I don't envy white women nor do I hate them, at least, not for those reasons, haha. I get irritated sometimes by the judgement that I face from the world, but I don't take my irritation or anger out on white women. Sure, it sucks not being able to jump into a pool whenever I want without worrying about my hair, but I can handle it. :)

Black girls are always downgraded in society and are always viewed as the less beautiful race even though that's not true. Everything about us is a flaw in the eyes of many and so in turn some reach a level of self-hate that is hard to come down from. White girls are always put on a pedestal and even though they may get some hate here and there, they never lose their place as number one when it comes to beauty. It's not so much that a black girl hates a white girl, it's more that a black girl hates the way society views her and takes that hate and anger out on white girls because it's the only way they know how to cope. I'm not saying it's okay for them to feel this hate at all because you can't hate someone for something they can't help.

Hope this helped. :/

pr3ttybr0wn · Accepted Answer

Honestly I don't give a fuck about y'all. meaning, I don't like or dislike white women im neutral about you until you give me a reason not to be.

You seem pretty resentful to black women judging by your post, so maybe the girls who know you in real life are picking up on this and treating you accordingly? Overall we are more direct, so if I don't like you I will either let you know why or I simply won't be bothered with you. I don't do the whole frenemy fake shit

latino women did not create twerking. twerking is a dance style that derives from Africa. if you did see some latin women twerking, you were seeing latin women from countries with an African background twerking.

as for the hair thing, nobody is trying to be white, straight hair is a generally accepted hairstyle in American society. it would be different if we were getting plastic surgery to look like white women

you come off extremely pressed and bothered by black women. if you are so happy being white why worry about us?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Wow, you are the WORST. You need to really educate yourself and understand that being white, WE come from a place of privilege. Until you can acknowledge that, you are causing harm to the African American community, you will not progress in this life.

You can listen and respect African American women and treat them with personhood for starters. You are speaking down against an entire group of women who have it harder than most. They not only have to deal with the struggles of being a woman, they have to go through it as an African American woman with a society that pushes the white standard of beauty on them. I will never understand that struggle, but the best thing we can do is be allies and shut up when we have no place to speak. So take your resentment and entitlement somewhere else.

waterwater53 · Accepted Answer

uhhhh. I'm soooo indifferent about white girls. You can do whatever you want it's just that we get attacked and called ugly for our fuller features ( Butt or Boobs, lips, darker skin) while whites get praised for it and Latinos did not "create" twerking that's been an African thing for the longest. And bleaching is not okay at all under any circumstances. You women are the standard of beauty and are represented everywhere so it makes sense that SOME OF COURSE NOT ALL black women feel this way. No matter how many accomplishments black women make we are usually represented as loud, ghetto, and obnoxious so I think you should be the last one that should be complaining.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Its true black girls always bullied my sister and my girlfriend was always bullied by them too and even got beat up by 2 black girls once, because she's white ; ( Its because black girls are jealous of white girls' beauty. Black girls are just miserable about their horrible hair (aka afros) that they have to deal with and they wish they had long silky hair like white girls do. So they take out their frustration on sweet, innocent white girls. There are obviously good black girls out there, but most of them are nasty mean jealous b*tches.. stay away from them

truthhammer · Accepted Answer

my black female firends have told me this.;..

because white girls are accepted and desired way more than blacks. whites and Asian girls are the highest in my city... blacks and brown people are always at the bottom.

Saffyistired · Answer

Ngl a lot of black women say horrible stuff about my curly hair, saying things like "white women can't have curly hair!!!" And "that b*@£& has a perm" or "her hairs cultural appropriation" it is upsetting and as a result I have to straighten my hair or they try to pull my hair out on the bus, start fights and throw things at my head. I deal with this recently by wearing a bodycam, which has really helped, meaning deep down they know it is wrong if they don't want to do it on camera. Now, I am pale and thin, freckled and Roma, I literally get black women commenting on my skin being ugly and how I MUST be on drugs if I am skinny and pale... it is so upsetting and I'm really getting sick of it. I think the post created is a bit racist but I've noticed a lot of racist white and black women on this thread and it is truly harrowing. If you are going to harbour all this hatred over skin colour, body shape and hair at least take responsibility for being so cruel to people. I would give anything to just not be seen my black women as ugly simply because I do not looklike them or have straight hair to "match" my skin... disgusting attitude.

Safyahisroma · Answer

I am a white roma 22 year old, I have extremely curly hair and I live in the UK.
Every single day I get into 'trouble' with black women because they say they are angry with me for getting a perm, they say it is cultural appropriation and they say my skin is disgusting and pale and they always call me a pikey (which is very common in the uk black people hate travellers as being roma gyspsy means poor white people in their eyes) when I beg them to stop and tell them its my natural hair they spit on me, kiss their teeth and say YOU JUST haven't BRUSHED IT? What kind of evil extremism is this? So obviously I know it's not ok for me to have this hair, and I have straightened it since age 12 as it upsets black people. I from age 12 have been held responsible for the slave trade due to my hair. Ridiculous, no child should suffer this way.
When I wear my hair straightened I still get the continuous stream of abuse but not as much, instead I get branded a "dirty white sket with straight white girl hair", for instamce when my hair is straightened I get this woman smash her trolley into my ass again and again, I can't tell staff as if I say anything she can just pretend I'm racist even though she is, hatred fills her eyes everytime she looks at other women. Yesterday I got on a bus and the bus driver kissed her teeth at me tossed her head around laughing and ripped up My bus ticket then kissed her teeth again and said 'get off' What I have learnt in life is that black women hate white women, but they won't abuse the nasty blonde posh girl who is racist instead they abuse the vulnerable white roma travellers because they aren't looking for justice they are looking for someone vulnerable and innocent to abuse, bully and blame.

ArielPeach · Answer

I am a white passing biracial women, and it's sad, but I feel like asking the same question. The only black people who've ever loved me are my dark skin mother and half brother. Black people are strong, amazing, beautiful, capable people, when they want to be. They can be difficult hostile arrogant selfish cruel and so many horrible things, if they want to be. I was taken by the government away from my parents for my mental health issues, and was placed in one foster care home, and from the ages of 16- 21 a group home owned by black women. they were so entitled. they were so cruel, they held me captive, no one seemed to care.
White women can be a disgrace too. I've dealt with racism from only 3 white women in my life, but I can not deny the jealousy of black women towards me. They made me pull out a big dark skin severely obese girl's feces out of a toilet with a Walmart bag. They would leave ME without soap and toothpaste etc. THAT is what they do to someone with THEY"RE OWN BLOOD just because "it" looks white. Even biracial girls who do not pass for white as I do harassed me. A Mexican girl harassed me. This is coming from a real biracial women! I went through this.

Anonymous · Answer

Bc they are threaten by the whites. Black men usually prefer white women due to stereotypes associated with black women. Not saying their true. But ghettoes food stamps, etch. Black ppm act like their the only race who've ever been through suffering. 😝

Anonymous · Answer

Trust me black women don't sweat white women. The ones that do get bitched out for being weak minded. Of course we hold ourselves in high regard, you should do the same. Oh, whining Is the dance style you're looking for.

TryHard · Answer

Nah.. Our culture is just broken.. Skin lightening is very common in black ladies because of the notions put our by western culture than white is prettier.. It's just spew on both sides..

naynay2015 · Answer

I'm so tired of seeing this question... white women are delusional.. To hate you we must first pay attentions to y'all.. Irrelevant

Anonymous · Answer

Why do white women hate Asian women? I mean not all, but the ones that do are so aggressive. What's up with that?

Anonymous · Answer

Because white women are stealing all the black men from themmmm, not your fault, that's their preference.

avirgintomorrow · Answer

Black women are largely indifferent to white women and I think people know this, they're simply hoping to make black women hate white women. The reality is that white women clearly hate and obsess over black women.

Anonymous · Answer

Why does white women hates Asian women?

ThatBritishLad · Answer

I don't know, I just work here. Want a Yorkie?

Anonymous · Answer

Do some like white guys?

Why do black women hate white women?

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