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Society is changing, and lots of young women (18-25) are now dating older men! (40-80)

I'm 54 years old and my girlfriend is 20 years old. I have been saying an increasingly amount of openness from young women who will date men older than, usually older than her father, sometimes even older than her grandfather!

I have asked my girlfriend and many young women about this, they said that they would "never" date a young man. Many young women have told me this. I think the fact is that young men (18-25) generally are immature and don't respect women, while older men are able to provide an income so it's all based on maturity levels. It now looks like young men will have to wait until 40 years old and over to date young women!

So I have been thinking, since young women now prefer old men, should young men begin to date old women, even old enough to be their mother? Because soon, those will be their only optional partners unless the wait until they're old enough. Would you agree to this or not? I asked young women this also and they all agreed to it!

a very young college student-athlete who still lives with his parents because he has no other choices financially?

I ask since women absolutely LOVE men who have their own homes and cars. I'm a 19 year old college student who is also martial arts competitor so that makes very hard for me to find a job that fits my schedule at the moment until my summer break from college starts. So pretty much, I live off of my scholarships (yes, I have plenty of scholarships) money and occassionally some of my parents money in order for me to pay for college and pay some of my own bills. And no, I don't come from a rich family. In fact, I come from an immigrant family who makes average annual income.

This comes from another post www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1361543-what-to-do-when-a-creepy-guy-approaches

I hear all the time here, "I'm shy, no one ever talks to me, etc." It is extremely difficult for a man to approach a woman, in this situation we are talking about a 22 year old woman and we'll say a 45ish man. Both are within dating age, and yes he's probably a little old for her, and she handled it well.

But it would have been safer for him to not speak to her in the first place, he experienced rejection here. One of the comments was "that's why I don't speak to strange women" And there is nothing wrong with that either. But we can't have it both ways, you cannot expect only compatible people to approach you. If you are approachable people will talk to you, if you are not people, usually, won't.

I read another article in a running mag from the perspective of a young woman who had an older man ask her if she needed help with the controls of her treadmill. She rudely blew him off only to realize she actually knew him, but didn't recognize him (he was the father of her friend and was just trying to help)

I understand that age has a factor in both of these stories, but women blow off men all the time regardless of age.

So the question stands should guys speak to women they do not know?