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I do. I’m sorry but from 15 to about 30 they have all the power in sex and dating. They’re fed so much bullshit it’s laughable. “Don’t have sex outside of marriage. The right man will wait”, “Don’t worry about getting a man. Work on yourself and build your career and find a man later”. What they don’t realize is most men aren’t going to wait for sex. When we like you, we want to fuck you. End of story, so when you hit us with “ I’m waiting until marriage to have sex” we leave. Why the hell should I invest my life and half my stuff in you then find out after the fact that you suck in bed or that you’re going to withhold sex from me. And your purpose is not careers ladies. Your purpose is marriage and babies. Men want to start relationships young, you girls want education, briefcases and corporate positions and thus throw good men away and sleep around for the sake of career advancement, then you arrive at thirty when your looks go to shit and think you’re still entitled to good men. Guess what honey, those good men are now courting, marrying and starting families with smart, pretty young women who USED to be you. And even if you are still pretty, you’re still not good for anything more than a one time fuck. Yet many of you still think you deserve love. Guess what! You don’t. You threw away many chances of finding love. Your only choice is to shut up and find some dumb beta simp who is willing to marry you or get cats. By the way, the only reason the beta simp is marrying you is because he’s to ugly and broke to get the hot young girls. And yes, my bitterness stems from being rejected left right and sideways by you bitches. If you’re over thirty and still not married, you fucked up and it’s your own fault. STOP CHOOSING CAREERS OVER MARRIAGE AND FAMILY!

To the men of GAG who take every opportunity to put down these bitches and remind them that they are NOTHING without marriage, you’re my heroes!

This is what I want in a long term relationship with a woman:

- financially independent but can work with me synergistically.
- exercises and diets well on most days.
- attractive enough that I want to have sex with her on regular basis.
- open minded to debate, but fights fair. Can be opinionated but not judgmental to point she cares more about being right vs. what IS right.
- no serious addictions. I've had a few minor issues with this, but it doesn’t control my life. So I will give her leeway for some sins. But I dated an alcoholic one time and I will never do it again.

In my entire life I have only dated one girl who fit all of these. But tragically we met me at the wrong time in my life and I ended up screwing it up. I owned up to that when we broke up.

However over 95 percent of the women I’ve met before and after her date me for the following shitty reasons:

- financial support
- briefly date and then friendzone. They try to keep me as orbiter for their own conceited bullshit reasons
- they are broken and looking for a “savior”.

I just feel that as a man I’m at an inherent disadvantage because women have more room to be choosy thanks to differences in sex drives.

As a man am I really expected to “settle”. I know a bunch of girls will say “oh follow your heart”. But they are 100% clueless on what dating is like for guys.