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I hear this a lot of from people. Especially men jump to this conclusion about women. Aside from people telling me this, I hear them say this about other women too. And to be frank, I don’t think it should be assumed so easily. There are women, similar to me, that just fail to meet a good match. Especially in the online game. And there’s nothing wrong with being selective, men can be shallow too.

If you choose to engage in sexual activity with a man you barely even know its not his problem. You are the woman, it is your body, you are to be responsible, have respect and standards for yourself. Just because you have sex with him does not mean he owes you a text, a phone call, a meal, a wedding ring, a relationship, a "girlfriend title "or anything else of that nature. If you dont lay any expectations nor your standards out men dont have a foundation to work off of but the simple fact that well,"maybe she just wants a good time🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️?" Have some respect for your selves. You know who you are and you constantly post about well ,"oh this guy i met online wanted me to do this and that online sexually." Then have the nerve to make another post stating," do you think a long distance relationship will work." . There is no relationship it is sex and that's it. If he hasn't discussed plans for you two to meet, you meeting his fam and friends, or you moving where he is and him Visaversa , guess what? You have no relationship.

I found and did research on this man I bumped into online. He is legit and safe to say a very kind person... we are virtually alike and he was overwhelmed when we saw each other on cam (we both thought we were attractive haha). He studied in one of te best universities, has written multiple articles and I can easily find information about him... I declined when asked to be his girlfriend and told him to give me time to truly know who he is and eventually meet up. See how it goes. We are so alike it is a bit insane! He said he is more than willing to wait. It somewhat took me aback he would ask me so quickly to be his girlfriend. I asked why and he said that he had a rush of emotions suddenly, but he understands perfectly and will wait. I'm home on sick leave, things could change when I start back to work, but is it normal for a man to ask to for a woman to be his girlfriend so quickly? What does that say about him? He has had a bad love life much like I have (I was abused and I told him this). Want to give him a chance and see.

Let me start by stating that I am convinced I will always be single. I am only ever approached by guys I would never consider dating. I see and hear of women that are talking of their current boyfriend. And how did they meet? He approached her. It makes me feel like I’m doing something wrong or guys don’t like me. It really frustrates me because I just want someone that I’m physically attracted to. And that never happens. I have resorted to online and that has been unsuccessful. I hear of people who have love fall in their life without even trying and it makes me jealous.