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Well this guy and I have been talking and opening up to each other. Talking about our past childhood, relationships, etc. he keeps saying it's better if he explains in person on some topics we talked about. So I asked him well you keep saying that, when will we make it happen? We live in different states. I told him I have to wait until I can come with a friend and their schedule, because I'm scared to drive alone. He's told me he doesn't want to rush it and doesn't know much about me but he thinks I should drive alone, it would be better. He also suggested that he will meet me halfway and drive with me 2 hours the remaining time to his state. Then he's like he is coming down to my state this month in March. I asked him why? he says he has friends that always wanted him to come and now he has a reason since he can hangout with me. But if he's not driving with anyone he will still come down and do something. Then yesterday he kept asking me about a past guy I was with. At first I told him I dated. Then I told him I had one long term. I wasn't going to tel him about that one at first but eventually did. He asked me how old the guy was and ethnicity and if I still talked to him. He joked saying so someone did catch your interest. I checked his okcupid profile because I think I'm getting played to the max. He hasn't been online since feb. 26th. Then he wanted me to FaceTime him while he worked on some stuff at home. He has a home and he renovated it. I wanted to see his final design. He told me when I come out I will see it. But then he posted on Instagram so now I've seen it so what's the point? So I'm just trying to be smart about this. I don't want to be played. I was googling and they say a player will try to be very sympathetic with you. Of course I have a crush and I'm just being friendly and not to many feelings. But it's getting there. Are these good signs or am I getting played?