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(I NEED OPINIONS) I've been friends with Francis* sincehigh school. We met during prom. After prom, wed send messages back & fourth & we would even talk on the phone till we fell asleep. When I went to college, we stopped talking. I met a friend that lives near Francis’ house. we went to his house then the three of us started hanging out together. I knew at this point that my crush for him never went away so one night, while talking to him I finally had the courage to tell him how I actually feel. He just teased so I decided to never bring up the idea again. Nothing changed, were still doing the same stuff. We even went out to watch a movie with his fam. This was our 1st PDA. I placed my head on his shoulders &he was cool about it. Now I have a serious relationship for almost 3 years. Francis and I stopped talking. last Oct 2, I greeted him a happy birthday&we started talking again. I went to his house and we talked & played ps4. He placed his head on my lap-vice versa. it was getting late, he asked if I wanted to sleep at his place that night & I said yes. He gave me his clothes and we shared the same bed. He also gave me a beer but nothing happened. Come Friday, I went to his house again. We did the same thing &I placed my head on his lap. He even cooked for me. I stayed for the night and we watched movies. We were laying down while my head is on his arms. But he said we shouldn’t be doing it because I have a boyfriend. Then when my back is turned towards him he would put his arm around me and whisper what’s wrong. While I’m watching horror movie, he said he’d sleep but whenever there’s a scary part he’d tell me to not look. He also grabbed my hand because I was too scared. Morning comes we talked about my boyfriend. He said that if I’m unhappy, I should break up and he also told me “So you like me, what’s wrong with that.” While I’m crying because I like him and not my boyfriend.

I've been friends with Francis* sincehigh school. We met during prom. After prom, wed send messages back & fourth & we would even talk on the phone till we fell asleep. When I went to college, we stopped talking. I met a friend that lives near Francis’ house. we went to his house then the three of us started hanging out together. I knew at this point that my crush for him never went away so one night, while talking to him I finally had the courage to tell him how I actually feel. He just teased so I decided to never bring up the idea again. Nothing changed, were still doing the same stuff. We even went out to watch a movie with his fam. This was our 1st PDA. I placed my head on his shoulders &he was cool about it. Now I have a serious relationship for almost 3 years. Francis and I stopped talking. last Oct 2, I greeted him a happy birthday&we started talking again. I went to his house and we talked & played ps4. He placed his head on my lap-vice versa. it was getting late, he asked if I wanted to sleep at his place that night & I said yes. He gave me his clothes and we shared the same bed. He also gave me a beer but nothing happened. Come Friday, I went to his house again. We did the same thing &I placed my head on his lap. He even cooked for me. I stayed for the night and we watched movies. We were laying down while my head is on his arms. But he said we shouldn’t be doing it because I have a boyfriend. Then when my back is turned towards him he would put his arm around me and whisper what’s wrong. While I’m watching horror movie, he said he’d sleep but whenever there’s a scary part he’d tell me to not look. He also grabbed my hand because I was too scared. Morning comes we talked about my boyfriend. He said that if I’m unhappy, I should break up and he also told me “So you like me, what’s wrong with that.” While I’m crying because I like him and not my boyfriend.

I have only been talking to him for a few days and he messaged me first (we met online) saying " Alright whens the date" We have just been small talking\flirting with each other. We are slowly getting to know each other. He said he wants to make out when we meet up. He says he finds me attractive and since we're both virgins he want to try it with me if I was willing to. He said If I don't want to make out then we don't have to. I asked him if he likes PDA (Public affection) he said he would hold my hand in public but making out in private. We seem to both like each other so far. He has asked for a pic of my hand. I know there's not much to go on but what do you think?

When a guy shows PDA (holding her hand and/or putting his arm around her in public), does this mean he's proud to be with her?
Not ashamed of being with her?
Thinks she's attractive enough?

Personally, I find PDA (Public Display of Affection) to be okay to an extent. Hand holding or hugging, even kissing ( not making out) are all good in my book. But dragging/leading people by their hand, making out, cosmtantly touchinge each other and in general making a big deal out of touch is fucking annoying.