Anybody else feel sickened by romance movies or couples being lovey dovey in front of you?

[foreveralone22]

As someone who has never felt love I hate and despise being put through the torture that is witnessing people in love. I don't understand how people find that stuff cute, I can't because I am too full of envy and want to find other people's relationships cute. Romance movies, I can avoid I just don't watch them BUT PDA IS EVERYWHERE. I can't stand going out in public sometimes because hand holding and affectionate couples are everywhere and my heart aches. I am always witnessing "cute" couple moments and it just makes me feel sad and empty sometimes. Sometimes, I feel like I don't matter because everybody has somebody. I mean, I try to make myself more attractive so I can date the guy I'm in love with and make him break up with his whore of a girlfriend.

[lostgirl_searching]

I'm in a happy relationship, I love my boyfriend. I see a future with him. Being married to him and having kids. Growing old, etc... BUT. I hate romance movies, I watch horror movies on Valentines Day and I hate when couples get all lovey dovey in public. Hand holding and hugging okay that's fine. But kissing? I hate seeing it. I was at the store and this young couple started kissing in line in front of me, like seriously? I think it's inappropriate to do that in public... But I wish you the best of luck. If it's not the guy you like. I hope you will find another guy for you. Sorry for the part of my opinion. I was trying to give out a example of how I feel.

[Nahliability]

I hate romance movies because I'm a cynical bitch and I hate pdas because I strongly dislike human touch and even seeing people kiss makes me feel uncomfortable but girl, you have issues.
You have to work on your attitude, no guy will ever want you if you're so full of hate and bitterness. You have to be happy with yourself before anyone else can start to like you. Believe me, I know that sounds like bullshit but it's true.

[foreveralone22]

I can't be happy unless there is a reason to be. My success in my dream career and dream guy will be my happiness. I can't create happiness. I mean I can pretend to be happy, I did it a bunch in high school with my friends I'd smile even when I didn't really feel like it.

[Nahliability]

Yep, that's where you're wrong. If you place happiness as a goal in the future you will never reach it, because there will always be something more you'll want. Examine your present situation and find things that make you feel good: the relationship with your parents or friends, the music that you like, movies that you enjoy watching. You're in college I assume so you're probably making progress towards your dream career. That's something to be happy about, isn't it?

[btbc92]

innocent romance doesn't sickens me but we're really does is the R rating garbage and call it Romance. I hate these lust-filled movies that's why I don't watch them anymore. what makes a crazies a lot of women especially if not the men trying to duplicate everything that's even TV and try to make it a reality. they want to know why they got issues.

[foreveralone22]

I hate innocent romance I hate all romance. It makes me upset because I'll never be in a relationship or know what love feels like

[btbc92]

the problem is that you're bitter has nothing to do with Innocent Romance. if you're bitter you can't love and you cannot share that with anybody else, and nobody don't want to be with a person who's like that. you can't blame other people for what you choose not to do which is making yourself presentable and eligible. plus you can't just go out and say all I want a boyfriend and you don't even know what a relationship even requires. it is far too demanding and not everybody is meant for dating in this life.

[btbc92]

and if you have no desire waiting to marriage to have sex or even get married at all and you do all these things before you even married you just sending yourself up for failure drama and more problems. then you really wish you stayed a virgin and never dated. remember to be careful what you wish for. lots of people wish there was in your place right now.

[foreveralone22]

I'm a virgin and I don't want sex, I want a relationship based on love and affection (and maybe sex when comfortable). Alright then so according to you my life is going to suck regardless and you don't think I'll ever be in a relationship so I should just give up on my life and stop trying because I'm never going to find somebody? Okay.

[btbc92]

to be in a relationship or not is all based on your choices. this has nothing to do with me this is everything what you choose to do. the problem is that you don't understand is that men that look for you want sex mainly outside of marriage and they don't care if you like it or not. that's why you wait to have sex when you are married not when you feel comfortable. these guys can walk right in and walk right out of your life without paying no consequences of whatsoever regarding to you. if you cut yourself the first thing they're going to say is how you did glad that got away from crazy and the ones who helped drive you crazy all those same men that you end up having sex with. that is why you wait. as long as you wait and you get involved with the right kind of person that respects and loves you as you are you have have greater success. but again that is your choice. but it still doesn't give you the right to be bitter about it.

[btbc92]

all I am telling you is that just because you want to be involved it doesn't mean that you just jump up and go do it without thinking. dating is serious business and is not something to be playing and fooling around about. if you wanted succeed don't be doing what everybody else is doing. you have to think rationally about this.

[btbc92]

loving a person is not easy. but lusting after somebody is. and that's what I'm giving you a fair early warning to watch after the type of people you attract. because many of them just want to get into your pants regardless how they got to do it. many will play the boyfriend called into they grow tired and then they want to move on if they never marry you.

[btbc92]

boyfriend card*

[foreveralone22]

With my luck that's probably going to happen and I feel like I might do something drastic if a guy pretended to love me and be a good boyfriend just to fuck me. I already know that love sucks and I'm afraid I'll never find a good one. Why is everything so hard and scary?

[btbc92]

because that's what people in this Society made it to be. the issue is that you don't have to be in it if you don't want to. to avoid you doing something wrong you don't get yourself involved with anybody. that's what I do because by me being celibate I don't have to worry about whether anybody's pretend to love me or not. I don't have to worry about putting poison in my body which is birth control pills or other garbage. and I already got hormonal issues due to thyroid problems. or God forbid heading towards divorce if marriage is even possible because I can't tell the difference between what's love and different penises that I had no business having, or kids outside of wedlock, and I can't even give them an answer business I'm ashamed of my self and sexual past. becuase I wanted to be like a dog out in the street or inviting them in my own bed.

[foreveralone22]

I have hypothyroidism.

[btbc92]

Wow. You will have to regulate that by changing your diet. I believe I have hyper, but they aren't telling me the truth. I thank God everyday I'm not like that. and never been in that situation. Because I know life is it worth it. Trust me when I say, just because they involved with somebody and doesn't mean everything in their Life is Peachy. I know it's scary, it's so scary to the point it's like, what the heck is people even thinking, and how in the world can they live like that? hopping from one man woman to another like it's hopscotch. and calling it normal. that's not normal to me its like a mental illness.

[btbc92]

it's scary how people mentally actually think. I feel sorry for the innocent children being born into a world they have no idea they'd been conceived into. let alone the kind of Life they're going to be living because of their parents choices.

[foreveralone22]

I don't eat a lot of junk food yet I can't loose weight, he'll I barely eat more than 800 calories a day. However, I hate medical procedures so I don't go to doctors anymore now that I'm an adult. My mom made me get the thyroid test when I was a child. I'm never setting foot in a doctors office or hospital again.

[btbc92]

well I wouldn't say that's why things for you to do I save for you to go to a doctor during times of emergency and for your annual check-ups. the point is is that you have to look up foods to help you treat hypothyroidism. you need to increase your mineral iron zinc magnesium Etc intake. stay away from soy product Foods because soy affects your thyroid. it's actually poison.

[btbc92]

and do a lot of juicing with natural herbs vegetables and fruits. trying to see if you have the finances for it superfoods. it's rich in plant-based protein that is good for you as long as you take it and do it everyday. is a strict regimen that you're going to have to try to do which means you got to stay away from certain foods for a while.

[btbc92]

as long as you continue to do this I'm positive that you will get better. I least pray so because hypothyroidism is not a good thing and you can cause a lot of problems health wise.

[-Beonkia]

I feel exactly the same way. I have never experienced love at all, especially in my four years of high school. Couples were EVERYWHERE and my friends were always talking about how some guy asked them out and I'm always like "why doesn't that happen to me?"

[foreveralone22]

LITERALLY ME ALL MY LIFE! FINALLY SOMEONE THAT UNDERSTANDS MY PAIN

[-Beonkia]

Lol I know! My friends didn't seem to understand it because they all had at least one boyfriend. I came close a couple of times and they all failed. And by the time graduation rolled around I just gave up

[foreveralone22]

I know, I just long for a guy to love me but then I look in the mirror and realize that no guy will ever want me and it's on my mind 24/7

[-Beonkia]

yep, same

[MarkRet]

Romance movies are usually kind of boring, because you don't see the couples REALLY doing something intimate. As far as PDA, I don't mind seeing some couple getting affectionate. If they're getting hot 'n heavy, I'll watch it as entertainment. At the same time, I'll be thinking, "Yeah, I wish I was doing some of that." As a rule, my wife and I don't do a lot of PDA.

I understand your situation. I didn't even HAVE a girlfriend until I was about 25. Since you haven't really had somebody, seeing other people having fun with each other probably DOES drive you nuts.

[Beenhonest00]

I actually prefer romance movies and seen couples spread love in front of me, than seen other worst situations. For example, I prefer much more a romance movie than this new movies who encourage a violence and hate. And I don't know about you guys but, seen a couple in front of you having a warm and passionate kiss boost you much more than seen some people beating each other in fron of you.
Hate < Love

[foreveralone22]

Watching other people being loved fuels my hate because nobody loves ME. I know I sound selfish but at the end of the day, I'm the one that's alone and miserable while everyone else is happy and has someone to fuel their happiness. I absolutely despised all the couples in high school they made me want to punch a wall. Sometimes I have actually done that.

[Beenhonest00]

I don't think is true, it may be a crazy idea but I think everyone is always keep someone else in their mind. For example if you saw a guy in college and he liked you. He may not say it but that night while you think no one likes you and feel so lonely that guy may not get you out of his head. Thinking how nice would be to spend some time with you. You never know lofe, is full of surprices.

[foreveralone22]

I'm not hot enough for a guy to think about, I'm working on it though.

[Beenhonest00]

See that is all about, a guy if he is worth it will see it. He will not see what are you know but what will you become. And hopefully they will support you to accomplish your goal.

[foreveralone22]

So he'll be like: "she has a weird face and is a fatass, but in a few months she can become a hottie." ?

[Beenhonest00]

No, more like wow what a girl. She has so much on her life and still works hard to improve herself. Look at her wanting to improve herself, she is much better than those girls who want everything handed to them. That is someone I definitely would want in my life.

[Pinay_ako]

I roll my eyes or puke a little bit when they're shameless lol. But a little PDA is fine. Good for them :D Love is in the air heyyy

[witherwing]

We are the annoying lovey dovey couple, so it doesn't annoy me. 😂

[foreveralone22]

Do you take joy in bringing down single people by rubbing your happiness and relationship in everybody's faces?

[witherwing]

No, but I also don't feel obliged to hide my happiness, because some people might find it offensive.

[bellpepprs]

I don't mind romance movies because some movies can make it look cute. I do understand your point that couples being affectionate can be so annoying. It's so stupid that the girls with boyfriends at my school are the plainest girls ever :/ but whatever one day I'll find my smoochie

[verybusyguy]

Ahaha u was expecting something similar to come up soon from a girl..

Especially from you after few of your last questions...

Yes it annoys me, why the hell are they bragging and showing off

Sometimes it feels like a cheap publicity stunt, attention seeking, they think they can make us jealous but it just makes me puke looking at them

[honestibrahim]

There's someone for everyone on the earth. If the guy you're in love with can't recognize and appreciate you it's because he's a bit occupied right now. Learning how to be alone and comfy with it is something we as humans struggle with because we are naturally social beings. The only reason I'm saying this is because ibwas right where you are mentally then. The trick was to love myself 1st.

[foreveralone22]

I won't love myself until there's a reason to. I don't see anything about me to love.

[honestibrahim]

There is a reason to love yourself. More there are plenty of reasons it's just that you may not see them now. If you're judging yourself be nice.

[foreveralone22]

I'm just honest with myself, not every thought has to be nice especially when being realistic.

[honestibrahim]

If you're negative before your honest with yourself you will see yourself negatively. The guy you're in love with has a girl now. So what? He's taken. Stay away and look elsewhere. You may find exactly what you're looking for.

[foreveralone22]

He's exactly what I'm looking for. Maybe it's a sign that I should stop trying and just accept the fact I'm going to die alone. Every single guy I have crushed has ended up having a girlfriend.

[honestibrahim]

He's not the only one that possess his qualities. If he's taken and you want to waste your time and be miserable, you're only doing it to yourself.

[foreveralone22]

Nothing else is new. I already hate myself, might as well keep making myself miserable because I have no reason to stop.

[honestibrahim]

Lol. That is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. Everyone hates or is unhappy with something about themselves. Are all of us miserable?

[foreveralone22]

I've heard that I'm ridiculous and worse before. No news there

[honestibrahim]

Buck up. You're not dead. Life is not only about being in love or loved. It's about living.

[foreveralone22]

Sometimes, I feel like I don't have anything to live for.

[honestibrahim]

And for the record, I said what you said was silly not you

[honestibrahim]

Sometimes people feel that way. If I told you my story you'd agree. It doesn't mean that your life is over. That feeling shall pass too. It's you that has to let it pass.

[Harlock2045]

Yes, PDA and copious amounts of lovey dovey content in film and real life make me uncomfortable. Or did so until I had the opportunity to be in relationships. Now it just makes long for days past when I had someone in my life to share that with...

[ThisDudeHere]

I just ignore them. I haven't felt it either but I'm not about to become bitter over it.

Also, your attitude is most definitely one of the primary reasons you're missing out on everything.

[49erfan]

i actually really like romantic movies , they make me cry sometimes , because I can relate to what their going through , sometimes their very realistic

[foreveralone22]

Oh you must be in a happy relationship, unlike me, the unlovable ugly freak.

[49erfan]

no im single , and maby you would learn from romantic movies , n a lot of them they say , theirs a person for everyone no matter what

[foreveralone22]

I don't believe in that crap. If there was someone for me he would've already came.

[49erfan]

Listen to the song Underneath it all by no doubt*, she says something in their that makes everything a bit clear , dont b mad at ur future man because he's late is all, relationships are just a series of challnges overcome by you and your partner even from the start , its real justkeep waiting

[BrianMerritt]

Yeah, me too. You are searching for your lost rib and are envious. People with shitty jobs don't like watching happy job people. Watch some older romance movies, they are much better and less trashy.

[foreveralone22]

I relate to the job thing too. I've always wanted to be a Hollywood actress. Much envy of celebrities too.

[foreveralone22]

P. S, I love your pfp. Gaston is hilarious af. One of fave Disney villains!

[BrianMerritt]

Thanks! I'm glad you like it. I love Gaston-type villains... Prince Charming from Shrek and Cal from Titanic. I get a kick out of them and their hot-shots-and-they-know-it.

[foreveralone22]

Last time I went to Disney World for my b-day a few months ago, Gaston was a character experience there and he acted like the real one. I've also seen videos of Gaston being an asshole to park guests like telling a little girl to get back in the kitchen and make him a sandwich. I love all the other Disney Villains more than the heroes but Gaston isn't really EVIL but he's hilarious.

[williamsa1997]

It is kinda unpleasant, regardless of the genders in the couple it's not really something people like to see in public

[zombiebabe]

i feel your pain... each time i see couples together being all lovey dovey i feel like its a real torture

[Bigdaddyslim01]

I do, it has nothing to do with them, it's that i really want this with someone but i haven't met anyone understand me yet and it seems i never will, and this makes me think how good it can feel and how much I'm far from it

[helphelpimdying]

I just cryed from reading that. it hurts too much. i hope you find someone.

[foreveralone22]

Thank you and I'm so sorry for making you cry! I appreciate you hoping I find someone, I do too but hope is for suckers! I feel like it may never happen for me honestly.

[helphelpimdying]

dont worry about it. its nice knowing others that share the same pain. But dont lose hope. its one of the 3 things you dont want to lose.

[foreveralone22]

I'm not a very hopeful person, because when I have hope or daydream scenarios, or have positive thoughts I only become disappointed.

[helphelpimdying]

oh man.. that hurts again. i know. its a hard thing to do.

[foreveralone22]

How am I hurting you? I'm sorry, I didn't mean to.

[helphelpimdying]

i think our usernames are somewhat similar

[Yes-Man]

Well not really sick, but it sure sucks to be alone while everybody else is having fun :(

[Titan123]

Wow you described how I feel everyday. Besides the last part lol. Trying to love is hard but you'll find the right person that will make you do all that "cute" relationship stuff.

[datgirl]

It makes me feel very sad and lonely and bitter/jealous.

[chrisbigman]

While I am happy for people who are happy together, I'd rather they not stuff it in my face.

[Anonymous]

I do feel it, but it's mostly "Oh boy here we go...", not a pukey feeling... Maybe I'm just bitter cause I never had a relationship like that before.

[foreveralone22]

I'm super bitter and angry and people always judge me for it.

[Opinion Owner]

Trust me, I get ya... Do you also get "Oh you'll find your soulmate one day don't worry." crap to?

[foreveralone22]

Yes and it makes me want to jump off a building. I hate when people tell me that. It makes me angry because I'm hopeless

[Opinion Owner]

I bet I'm more hopeless than you are.

[foreveralone22]

I honestly doubt it

[Opinion Owner]

Ever met that one person you just clicked with and then they got a SO the next week right behind your back?

[foreveralone22]

YES ALL THE GUYS I STARTED HAVING FEELINHS FOR ENDED UP HAVING GFS

[foreveralone22]

It's why I hate myself and everyone else because it's like the world tantalizes me. I find someone I'm interested in and then they're taken

[Opinion Owner]

Guess what? Same here. Every freaking time.

[foreveralone22]

I should just stop feeling and just end my suffering because I know I'll never be happy or have someone to love me

[Opinion Owner]

Now hold on now. No going that far.

[foreveralone22]

I'm not that far

[Opinion Owner]

Okay, good. Just don't do anything crazy or bad, alright? Sure life sucks, but who knows what path it'll take.

[foreveralone22]

No promises

[foreveralone22]

Nobody cares anyways

[Opinion Owner]

You got family? Friends? If there's one then someone will care.

[Dominace100]

Personally, I do like anything romance related but I do feel the same about pda.

[psychosam]

Yeah, but not out of envy, I just hate all that shite