Search Results: shy guy and attraction

Intense attraction but painful silences - would hanging out be worth it? anyone with experience in this situation your help would be great!!?

there's this guy who i really like and I think he likes me too - I guess it's pretty much pure attraction cuz we barely talk cuz both of us are shy! anyways I want to hang out with him but am scared it will be awkward -...

laceandstuff20

Xper 5 Age: 32

Why do I feel hurt and a bit jealous?

I was out with my friends today at the bar... and i found out that my female friend that i like... and that likes me... (we basically act like a couple a lot of the time.).. went and played minigolf with our other guy...

sage7

Xper 6 Age: 39

Is attraction enough to start dating?

a guy and me really like each other but we're both too shy to admit it outright, and we're really shy around each other at this point period and other than that we don't have a lot of things in common. but we have so much...

laceandstuff20

Xper 5 Age: 32

Is staring a sign of attraction? Glance at eachother? Or hold eye contact?

Fused to be in class with a guy I would look at him and he would look at me even tho we wouldn't talk he would I wouldn't but we would kind of stare for 5 sec and then look away and would keep talking and the same thing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Have u guys ever entered a friends with benefits situation wanting more from the girl?

So my friends with benefits said from day 1 he doesn't want a girlfriend. I found out through friends and family, that it's because he's been hurt, and he's painfully shy. Since before we entered fwb, at my request, we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Avoiding the guy because of non-interest OR intense attraction: how do you differentiate the two?

Okay, it seems from reading some posts here that there is a general consensus that girls tend to be shy, avoidant, and nervous around guys they are really into. If that is the case, how do you differentiate between a girl...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How should a girl approach a guy?

I am working on developing my confidence to approach guys I like. I've done it before but it didn't end very well. I am a shy girl and also introverted. My personality makes it tough for me to show interest sometimes. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does she like me as a friend or am I just oblivious to her subtle signs of attraction?

This girl I have a crush on is single now, but she was in the past relationship for like 5 years. Her ex broke up with her about 3 months ago. They still talk and hang out sometimes. My crush and I started talking via...

shy_guy_93

Xper 5 Age: 32

Is it weird that I'm 20 and I like a guy who is 36?

Last weekend I went out to a very close friends house for a graduation party. This guy, Josh, and I hit it off. I'm a little shy when it comes to the opposite sex and attraction. Not to mention he's 36 and I'm 20. As the...

hannahmariee94

Xper 5 Age: 32

Is he not attracted to me? Or is he shy?

I compliment my guy friend all the time, I even nicknamed him "Azure" lol! Cause of his bright blue eyes. He has said some compliments about me behind my back to friends, but yet he'll compliment girls to their faces....

BrunetteBabe1005

Explorer Age: 32

Is patting someone on the shoulder a sign of attraction?

Someone was teasing me at work and my crush laughed and patted me on the shoulder. He is kind if shy and someone told me shy guys will pat you on the back or shoulder because they are too shy to touch you any other way at...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Been talking to a girl for a while (it appears attraction is mutual), and she suddenly didn't respond? New to "dating" and so is she, so bear with me?

I met a girl and she seemed into me. I got her number, and we have been texting for a while now. She is *very* shy (something I like), but through texting (because we have yet to find a day to get together) it seems like...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Accidental eye contact with a guy, now he keeps looking. Why?

As I was walking in the door to one of my college classes (small classroom, about ten students in the class), I just happened to look to the left of the classroom at one of the male students. We made eye contact. He was...

rachel3421

Xper 6 Age: 31

Should I tell him how I feel, leave it alone, or cut him out of my life?

So me and this guy I've known for 3 years, have chemistry and attraction and tension. We've been friends with benefits for 2 years, on behalf of me making it that way. He is a shy guy and he has been very hurt and run...

CutestMommyEver

Xper 6 Age: 45

So me and this guy I've known for 3 years, have chemistry and attraction and tension. We've been friends with benefits for 2 years, on behalf of me making it that way. He is a shy

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What are good ways to help me get the right guy?

I'm a shy girl and I have no experience with guys. I have chosen to be a Virgin until I'm married and I want my first kiss to be with someone special! While I am shy I do think I have some skills that make me capable of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do I behave this way with guys?

So I'm a senior in highschool and a lot of guys are attracted to me and pursue me but I always push them away. I even avoided my boyfriend when we were dating. We were having a tough time at the end of our relationship...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Who do you think is more logical in the dating scene?

I think despite men having the image of being more logical, I think women are more logical when it comes to dating/attraction/flirting. Generally women know what they want. If they perceive a bad signal from the guy,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I think despite men having the image of being more logical, I think women are more logical when it comes to dating/attraction/flirting. Generally women know what they want. If they

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Could this girl be into me? Have I lost my chance?

So, I was out with three guy friends and two girls, from which I know only one - she cuts my hair. She had brought along a very hot friend of hers. From the beginning of our interaction, things seemed to go really well....

loxagos_snake

Xper 6 Age: 33