Search Results: too fat or too skinny

I’m a 17 yo female. I’m interested in guys that can meet up to these standards:

body wise:
-at least 10 cm taller than me, i am only 165 cm or 5’4 i think? And living in the netherlands makes this easy luckily.
-not fat/chubby/skinny. Anything else is fine.
-preferably broad shoulders.
-decent looking: decent face, takes care of his hair, his clothes and doesn’t dress like the typical guy or is open to trying new things fashion wise. He also has to be hygienic.

personality:
-humorous (basically anyone is funny so not that difficult either)
-NOT passive: should tell what’s on his mind and not be afraid to be physical: i. e. Kiss me, touch me whatever.
-needs to be mature in the sense of me being able to have a conversation with him that’s not just about a fucking soccer game, his ps4 and fifa, etc.
-intelligent to my level or above.
-loyal&honest (doesn’t seem like too much to ask)

that’s all i can think of. Now, can you tell me, are these high standards in your opinion?

also, most of these standards are met by males aged between 20-50. I am only interested in guys aged 18 of above, yet I feel as though they are not interested in me. Is there a way to attract these guys?

I know i’m not exactly a catch but i ain't trash either: i’m lean but still have a few curves on me, dress well, am mature, can be funny, sarcastic humour mostly though, i’m not really ugly: pretty decent. I have long brown hair that is inbetween curly and wavy, brown eyes, tannish skin, i am well mannered... my big issue is vulnerability, but that’s not important at first sight, so that can only be an issue if you actually know someone.

Do you like a normal body (not skinny, not fat and no six pack and such defined muscles)

Or

Do you like a muscular body (six pack and some muscles but not too much)

Which do you prefer?