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Now before you vote, I would like to clarify that in the past I have tried to break up with my boyfriend. Because of our communication, my insecurities, depression and anxiety. But he doesn’t want to leave and still wants to be by my side.

I have asked for help and advice from strangers online. Including my family. That with my boyfriend (hardly) being around. Is not helping me. I get ignored, judged, lectured, to the point it leads to confusion and arguments.

I don’t want to hurt my boyfriend because of my emotions. But he’s hardly around and always busy. That it does make me insecure.

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I keep making excuses and justifying his actions of him being there for me.

-“oh he listens to me.”
-“he compliments me.”
-“he’s trying to help me with math”

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(it does hurt when you tell a sad person they’re not ready for a relationship)

Just recently I’ve felt like me and my boyfriend haven’t connected. We haven’t had sex or kissed in the past two and a half weeks because I was sore and my lip flared up from picking at it sorry if too much info. Just recently he texted me asking me how he was supposed to put pto in to not come into work because he slept late. The way he asked me he seemed demanding about getting the answer as if I needed to work on his time. Like it’s not my fault you were late to work. So he called me later that day and FaceTime me and I didn’t say much on the phone. About a hour after us being on the phone it talking be hung up without saying anything and I immediately texted back asking why he hung up he could’ve at least said okay I’m hanging up. He didn’t answer me from 11 pm that night to 3 pm the next day. I was for sure he left me on read and wasn’t sure how he could be asleep that long he was just posting on Facebook earlier that morning. So I texted him back and called and he finally answered. Turned out he was still sleep around 3 pm. So I hung up and said I would talk to him later. I was fed up because I hadn’t heard from him. I blocked him to give him his own medicine because he said if he texts someone and they don’t respond after a while he blocks them. So I did just that and to let him know that I was upset. When we argued he said he was sick of this. So basically I eventually unblocked him after a day or two and he seemed to not wanna get with me. He said find god and come back other than that stay gone. He calls me ma and told me yesterday that he misses me and that he still has love for me and loves me. He texts me everyday. He told me I’m hot. But when I asked if we could get back together he said he doesn’t want to be in a relationship right now. What is this supposed to mean? What should I do? I don’t have time to be led on either. You either want to get back or not. Should. I talk to him about it one more time before I emotionally detach?