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We met on Tinder and he clarified to me that he wants a relationship.

We talked for 2 months before we actually met. He flopped twice on meeting me and I flopped once. The first time he flopped, his reason was because his sister got pregnant and his mother was mad. He had to deal with the situation. The next time we set up a date, I flopped because my relative came over from another country. The 3rd time we set up a date, he flopped again and I was really mad. I got ready and when the time came, he never showed up and ignored my calls. Hours later, he sent me a text saying he does want to meet me and something came up. I just stopped talking to him. 2 weeks later, he messaged me saying that he wants to fix things and try again. I accepted it.

When we met, it was good. He was obviously very attracted to me. He apologized to me for what happened and that something really bad happened to him. We have been talking everyday ever since. We set up a 2nd date and it was supposes to be today. 2 days before, he said he won a ticket at work to see a game so can't make it. He rescheduled to the next day. Yesterday, he said he might can't make it. I asked him why and he said he's to deal with what he mentioned to me in person. I was disappointed when he said he can't make it. We talked on the phone and he told me the issue he was dealing with. One of his family member owes shark loans a lot of money. His family member don't have the money so he took over the debt. He lost a lot of money and still paying them. He has been feeling really stressed & not being himself so he doesn't want to see me. Later, he told me he has been dealing with this issue for awhile. He told me not to tell anyone about it just incase if we get into a relationship he don't want people to judge him.

He told me that he wants me but don't want to jump into a relationship. I don't know if he's lying or he's being serious about it. Does he sound like a player?