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How to deal with an insecure boss?

My boss is very insecure but tries to hide it under a veneer of unemotional toughness. There seems to be something about me that triggers her insecurity even more. When I ask her a question, she'll answer it but then...
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Guys, Is it positive or negative attention (Long)?

I've known this guy since he was 9 and I was 5. He's in his mid 20s now and I'm in my early 20s. I've only properly spoken to him once, in the garden when he was wolf whistling (or at least attempting) when he was...
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Jealous friends?

Im a beautiful woman... so they say but it also comes with the negatives... i cannot hold a friendship with a woman for my dear life... jealousy comes in between even with my sisters... they always get jealous because i...
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Do I have daddy issues?

I was reading up on it mainly because I like hearing songs about daddy issues. When I was born, my dad cheated on my mom -or so I’ve heard- and he has barely even acknowledged my existence years later. I’ve grown up in my...
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How to move on after getting out a bad relationship?

I'm just gone get straight to the point, no need to beat around the bush. My friends cousin been crushing on me since he first saw me I never paid any attention but I always thought he was cute just too short for me. We...
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Tips on gaining the confidence to dress how I want?

I figured that it would be best to flip my closet and only own clothes that I really like (I used to actually buy clothes that looked bad on me on purpose; I don't do that anymore, but still have a few remains). But until...
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I have two question's in one paragraph. Why do certain men behave like this? ( read the whole thing so you guys can understand, thank you.)?

1st question is: If a man is interested in you both emotional and physical, then why don't they show the emotional side towards you. 2nd question is: How do you know a guys true attentions. So to make a long story short....
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The Offspring's Smash Record

Wassup music lovers! I promise I haven't forgotten bout you all XD I simply haven't had the time to come up with another take. Ok, I know this is kind of a weird turning point in takes. You're more used to mainly metal...
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Do I suit braces?

I’ve always been self conscious of my appearance but especially my teeth due to the obvious fact they are “wonky”. I got braces today which I feel draws more attention to them and I was just wondering do I look okay with...
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What should I do in this relationship?

I have this girlfriend who has a lot of concern about how she looks and loves me to death. She gives me so much love but she can be sometimes harsh and mean to strangers and laugh at them because she thinks they are fake....
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LADIES, PLEASE HELP?

Me and my ex broke up about 6 months ago, but we were not %100 broken up it's been off and on, i got too insecure and needy basically begging for her to take me back, getting jealous over small things. It was really...
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I love my sister, but I don't like her. I would not hang out at all if she was not my sister. Am I a horrible sister?

My youngest sister made by my parents accidentally, and not aborted so she was not wanted at all. But my parents are glad to have her, so are i and my other sisters too. She is a good person in her heart. She is not...
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What is the point of people asking to be roasted?

I just really don't get it. What does a person have to gain from a bunch of strangers making fun of them? Is it self-deprecation? Do people actually enjoy being criticized? Or is it attention-seeking behaviour, despite it...
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Why Do We as Humans Feel it is Compulsory to Judge?

Why is it that we judge? We all judge every day, every thing. We judge hairstyles, fashion, how others raise there children and even who they are dating or are married to. We judge by sex, sexual orientation, skin colour,...
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Outcry for Sexual Abuse Victims: Where's the Outcry for Other Abuse Victims?

I wonder if the media and the world knew what they were getting themselves into when they let the allegations against Harvey Weinstein go public? After all, that is the catalyst that started this whole domino effect of...
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Do you, or have you had an eating disorder?

Do you currently, or have you ever had an eating disorder? If so, what do you think influenced it? My personal story is that I developed a negative body image at age 14 when my best friend and I had a fight and she...
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The Power of Words & the Search for God

Words are powerful. They can rip through you like a bullet or they can heal your wounds. They can cut someone to their core and they can weigh you down like a ton of bricks. Words can carry you through hardships or they...
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I try to push people away, I lash out at my friends, I try to make them not like me because I don't think they should. What is wrong with me?

Sometimes I'll be fine for weeks.. even months. Then I'll get into that self loathing, passive aggressive, negative attention seeking thought and behaviour pattern that I'm in once again now. From reading Eckhart...
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Many guys feel girls raised with brothers as a potential mate advantage. Do girls think about guys whom grew up with sisters as a plus?

Most girls familiar with growing up with guys (their brothers), will be both their advantage in being able to be both realistic and accepting, or a potential mate, as they have already experienced men growing up their...
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Cognitive Distortions: 6 Mindsets That Can Be Detrimental To Your Relationship

Cognitive Distortions - Faulty Thinking Cognitive distortions are ways that our mind convinces us of something that isn't really true. They are exaggerated and irrational thoughts,and beliefs that are not based on...
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