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Search Results: shy or aggressive
Shy guy and making the first move?
So, I've started seeing this shy guy who won't make the first move. We've already been out on four dates, and at the end of each date when we're saying goodbye, he gets quiet, blushes and looks away from me and starts...
jen_rox
Xper 5 Age: 40 Guy calls/text/flirts but avoids making plans to hang out!
I met a guy on eharmony.com (so he's obviously looking to date or just meet girls) and we talked all the time online - it took him almost a month to get my number and finally we talked on the phone. We get along great,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do shy girls not know how to flirt back?
Okay so I like this girl and I'm still at it. I haven't done MAJOR flirting but just enough that she (or at least I think) knows I like her. I have touched her but she never seems to touch me back or initiate contact....
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys if you were to be approached. .
by a shy girl (like myself) how would you think the best way to do it is? I like this guy but I Am really shy and I don't know if he is oblivious to the fact that I like him but I almost want to just Tell him to ask me...
Anonymous
(36-45) Nice Guys Finish Last = Fallacy, Passive & Deceptive Guys Finish Last
After reading a lot of thoughts on the seemingly age-old dating credo "nice guys finish last", I felt I had to throw my $0.02 into the pot and chime in on this issue. According to the adage, guys who are "nice" in...
NMMan
Guru Age: 42 Guy shows signs he likes me and then turns mean...help !
There is this hot guy I know from high school and he used to stare at me a lot in the beginning. After that we started talking sometimes and he gave me a box of chocolates one day. I'm a shy girl & I usually take things...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I ask him out?
I am so confused. He's kind of shy and I get the feeling he likes me by his actions. He comes up to me and talks to me. Sometimes he finds questions to ask me just so he can come talk to me. He hasn't asked for my number...
Anonymous
(36-45) What am I doing wrong/how to improve myself?
Alright, so I have been dating a girl now for a few weeks, and she is really my first girlfriend (late, I know). Anyways, I have always been really shy, that is why I avoided girls in the past. Anyways, I am now dating...
Anonymous
(36-45) Truly a friend?
I have not written in awhile. I have remained friends with someone I once dated briefly. after we broke up our friendship continued with a lot of flirting and occassionall getting together, just for coffee and things...
maureen
Xper 5 Age: 49 Why did he stop showing interest??
Ok so I met this guy and I was totally interested. I assumed he was interested in me also because he initiated that phone calls and text messages, etc. This went on for a few weeks but he wouldn't ask me on a date! I...
CoverGirl
Xper 5 Age: 48 What do guys prefer more? Innocent or not so innocent?
Most of the guys I've been with have said to me, they prefer innocence, submissiveness etc whilst only one out of all the guys I've gone out with wants someone who's 'dominant'. I wonder why that is it seems guys want a...
Reeses-pieces777
Guru Age: 38 What If You've Never Had A Boyfriend?
There seems to be a huge struggle with many girls who have never had a boyfriend before. Many 16, 18, and even 20 year old girls have asked me this question, “I’ve never had a boyfriend before, I’ve never kissed a...
Jarett
Xper 5 Age: 45 Aggressive Girls?
Guys, what do you think of an aggressive girl? I find myself almost always taking the initiative when it comes to getting to know a guy. Like if I know a guy I like is interested, I won't wait too long before I start...
itstavia3
Xper 5 Age: 38 It's been over a week since I've heard from him?
Ok I have a long story, but here is the short version. A guy I like gets my number from my facebook calls me (kind of known he has liked me for a while) and texts me all of a sudden and wants to "Break the ice" and ask...
Anonymous
(36-45) We have nothing in common
We have been dating for almost 3 years. Off and on. Mostly Off. He is into cars. I'm really not. He has a favorite video game. I hate. When we are with other people. They only talk about this game. Or work (they all...
Anonymous
(36-45) I called this girl
So I called this girl after getting her number, she definitely showed interest prior, I'm a shy guy. so I waited a few days and called, left a message, she didn't call me back. flash forward about a week, I'm walking to...
lemagnif
Xper 5 Age: 41 Should I have the relationship talk??
So I've been hanging out a lot with this guy who flirts with me, calls me, asks to do stuff, and seems pretty jealous if I start hanging out innocently with other guys. He hasn't made a move yet or any indication that he...
actingislife1
Xper 5 Age: 36 Am I invisible?
When I read question from women on flirting with men that they like on this site or others, it always brings up the same internal questions about myself -- am I invisible? Where are these women that are interested in men?...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Crushing over an older guy and what should I do?
Hi! I'm 23 going on 24 later this year. I have a huge crush on one of my ex colleagues who is about 10-11 years my senior. We weren't exactly working in the same physical location so we did not know each other...
Anonymous
(36-45) How would I let him know that I'm interested?
I am really shy, but the guy I like is more shy than I am which makes the dilemma worse. I would like to let him know that I am interested in him to encourage him to approach me next time or better yet ask me out. This...
Anonymous
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