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I want to be as specific as possible so you can get the full picture of my situation.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months exactly. We see eachother every day. We spend nearly every second of our free time together except when... It's time to go to bed. He tells me he loves me. I want to believe he does. But he has only stayed the night with me twice. Often, most of the time more than once a week, he will even book an extravagant, expensive hotel room... just hang out with me there, sex, hang out some more, drink etc , then leave. Sometimes he is so drunk he can barely walk and he would still rather go home! It is very important for a man to sleep with me, to hold me, make me feel safe, secure and comfortable... I don't understand how a man can be comfortable having sex with me, going down on me etc but not sleeping me. It's very hurtful, and I feel like it's something about me. Like, maybe he doesn't want to be attached to me. Like a psychological issue where he may see this as a larger commitment. Or maybe he is scared it will become a habit. I DON'T KNOW. I am an attractive, slender, 21 year old woman... I can't see why he wouldn't want to sleep with me. Every morning when I wake up I just roll my eyes into the back of my head like... what the hell am I doing? I have never thought that this would ever be any sort of issue.
I have confronted him many times. Told him that this isn't going to work if this carries on. I have told him that it is important to me. It's just like he doesn't care. I've never even been inside or outside of his apartment. But I know he doesn't have a girlfriend bc he's ALWAYS with me.

When I told him last night that I needed an answer right then and there why he won't sleep with me, he said, "The last girl that I slept with was my ex of 7 years"... Which ended about 5 years. (he is 28) I DO KNOW for a FACT that this is a LIE bc he told me about another realationship that he was in for one year and they lived together after 6 months. I confronted him on the lie... he stuck by his lie saying that I had gotten confused (HA I had not) and I didn't say another word bc I didn't want to argue. He doesn't pee the bed, doesn't pass gas while sleeping... so it can't be that. he's not a snorer... Does any one have any input on why this is? And dont say it might be a clingy booty call bc its not like that. I just need to know if I should just leave. What's the deal here guys, really?

I'm 21, and my boyfriend is 34. He asked me 3 different times to come over to his place this past Thursday. We were both really tired and we were both having a really bad day. I initially said that I don't think it was a good idea since he was in such a bad mood and since I was also exhausted. Since he kept asking me to come over I eventually gave in and I ended up staying the night which was a bad idea. He lives in a small cramped room In a basement which makes me very claustrophobic. He had the window shut the entire night and the fan on because of the poor air circulation. Unfortunately he also snores very loudly which makes it difficult for me to sleep with him. The whole argument basically started because I was crying the entire night because I was overly exhausted and he didn't once ask me what was wrong. Whenever I cried before he would always ask me what's wrong but now he just ignored me the entire time. I said to him in the morning that he was obviously lying about having feelings for me since he didn't once ask me if I was okay. He said that he was tired of my bullshit and that I should get out of his place for calling him a liar. He also said that I was beating him for the last 3 hours when he was trying to sleep. Apparently when people snore I have a habit of kicking my feet in the middle of the night.

After the argument I had a hard time breathing and I left the house with his roommate. I couldn't breathe the rest of the day so I ended up calling a health hotline and they advised me to call an ambulance and go to the hospital. I ended up walking to the hospital and the doctor told me I had a panic attack. I texted my boyfriends roommate saying that I was in the hospital. A second later after I texted her my boyfriend texts me saying he will call me In a few days.

Should I assume he wants to break up or and how should I approach the phone call when he does phone? We go to the same college. I think a break up would be very awkward?

Do you have any weird sleeping habits that help you go to sleep or stay asleep?
All lights off, any on?
Do you have to sleep with a blanket in one way?