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Search Results: slowing things down
Asked a guy for clarity after talking for about 2 months and I’m not sure how to interpret his response?
Been talking to this guy [26M] that I [26F] met on a dating app for 2 months. We talk every single day and have met up twice with the most recent date being yesterday. I finally mustered up the courage to ask him...
Anonymous
(30-35) Asked a guy for clarity after talking for 2 months, and I’m not exactly sure how to interpret his response?
Been talking to this guy I met on a dating app for 2 months. We talk every single day and have met up twice with the most recent date being yesterday. I finally mustered up the courage to ask him where he thinks...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls: Dating 101: True Love Waits
This is going to be the first in a series of Dating 101 myTakes I will be doing. I will take one very common question, scenario, dilemma or subject, and unpack it, decrypt it, explain or explore it. Some will focus on...
Does anyone else think that the notion that we have to chose between limiting the spread of coronavirus and saving the economy is a false dichotomy?
Many people have argued that we have gone too far in terms of slowing the spread of the coronavirus and wrecked our economy in the process. This has led to a widespread perspective that we have to chose between saving our...
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Guru Age: 36 Confused by the hot/cold vibes?
I've been causally seeing a guy for several months, I have known him for years. He is recently divorced and has made it clear he is not ready for commintment, which I have come to terms with. He will go without...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Is this a case of right girl, wrong time?
I've been friends with this girl Michelle for a couple of years now. We go to the same church, have the same group of friends, both big football fans, etc. I often feel sexual tension between us, but I feel like we can't...
Anonymous
(30-35) What do I do with him? should I stop talking to him to see if he’s going to put effort? I need good advices please?
Me and this guys agreed to know each other well before being in relationship, not only that but we have known each other for years. He said I want to take things slow before being officially together. We told each other...
Anonymous
(25-29) My second job experience and why I won't be going back to it.
As a lot of you know during covid-19,a lot of resturaunts closed down and went to delivery or takeout only. My job was closed till May 4th. During that period the steakhouse where I was at was takeaway only. Business was...
Is this normal or are they red flags?
I’ve recently started getting back into talking to new guys after coming out of a long term relationship. I’ve been talking with one guy in particular for about 3-4 weeks. He seems nice enough but he does the...
Anonymous
(25-29) My crush has been showing some strange behavior. What are your interpretations of this?
I'd appreciate it if you girls and guys would help me out. My crush started acting rather unusually. Here are a few things she does. She asked me for food out of nowhere and went through my backpack. She started...
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Xper 3 Age: 24 Why do you guys think he went completely ghost?
I had been talking to this guy for about 9-10 months and it wasn’t until recently did we get intimate and after that he sort of slowed down on texting or communicating. I haven’t made an attempt to contact him either...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, should I be spontaneous and send this guy who hasn't contacted me in almost three weeks a voice message to ask him how he's holding up?
We went from speaking more consistently, to speaking a little less (we're both busy), to him not contacting me in a while now. We've never met but we're supposed to and our last messages were indeed about meeting up. I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Which message would a male respond better to?
My fiancé unexpectedly left 3 days ago and I want to ask him to come back home. Which message would be better? I wrote this one: Babe, please come home. I miss you. Bubba and lulu and piper miss you. I know you...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can I slow down my feelings after sleeping with a date?
As a girl, whenever I sleep with a guy I’ve been dating it’s like I wake up and my feelings hit me like a tonne of bricks! Does this happen to anyone else? Any tips on how to slow these feelings down and carry on as...
Anonymous
(36-45) Small businesses need your support now more than ever!
It's no secret that the coronavirus has hurt lots of businesses. Small businesses have been hurt the most. Many laying off or furloughing workers with some never reopening. Some big national retailers are going bankrupt...
When will she respond?
I started talking to a girl I met at school, myself and my friends all thought she was interested in me. We were snapping, texting and she even said she was interested in FaceTiming. However, I just moved 1000 miles away...
Anonymous
(25-29) I drank pee now I’m gaining weight?
How can I reverse this? So basically I have naturally good clear skin but I was having a month of bad skin for some reason so my mom told me if I drink piss it will help me remove all the bad skin and cleanse my body....
Anonymous
(25-29) He asked me to be his girlfriend but has done nothing in 4 months... Is he wasting my time?
My guy friend asked me to be his girlfriend sometime in December and I told him that I want us to take things slow. Get to know each other better and not jump right into it, which he understood and agreed to. In...
Anonymous
(30-35) The guy I’m seeing has randomly slowed down his replies? is this something I should be worried about?
I know everything with the lockdown has caused craziness and everyone feels pretty out of whack. But literally only a few dahs ago things seemed normal and then his replies randomly slowed down and last night he ignored...
Anonymous
(25-29) Has the “hook up” culture made women more apt to friendzone guys when they don’t make a move early (and the woman knows he interested)?
Once upon a time I felt guilty about “hook ups” in my late teens and early 20s. Back then I actually had a few girls hop on me. I would follow up with them later to just hang out, just to be “nice”. Other guys would say...
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