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2 months ago, I got in contact with a crush I knew in the 7th grade (I'm in the 11th grade rn). She rejected me at that time. We don't stay around each other in person and we don't know where each other lives. But the first month we started talking over instagram, she says she remembers everything about me. More than I remembered about her. We texted, sent voice messages, called each other, laughed at stuff I said, and she tells me that she regrets ignoring me in middle school. Her and I have so much in common and we used to get flirty and talked about nsfw stuff. We're both introverts and we get really shy around the opposite gender. She even called me 'hun' after a compliment. We even talked about how we both got bullied sometimes and I would always push her to not give up on herself. Then she told me about how she only has 2 female friends and like 10 guy friends (including an ex) due to being slut shamed. Then she started getting more quiet. She even ignores my messages while she's deadass online 24/7. I honestly think she talks to other boys and maybe our flame died out.
Recently she ghosted me all last week and still today. Then she casually replies to me messages saying 'good morning' and 'i just need time to myself' and then goes quiet again rn. Not even considering me. I think my love for her is growing too fast.
How can I do this as well? I've gotten advice from my friends and the internet on how to move on from a girl, except im not actually moving on. I'm trying to worry more on myself until she replies to me. I don't know if she's really taking time to herself, talking to other guys, or playing hard to get (which is really unlike her), but I wanna be as thoughtless as her right now to avoid becoming desperate.

How do I learn this emotionless ghosting power?

How many of you women think you can go from bestfriend to dating?

My besty already knows I liked her at one time, talking go her tonight about dating advice with some other girl she said " you started losing weight when you fell in love with me", she also said "you life live in fear of uncertainty" (girl I'm sorta talking to has health issues and she's telling me not to worry about them).

I really dont want to loose her as a friend but that could just be me being a chicken, I think I should try.

She dosent think anything is wrong with me for being a 29 virgin either, she didn't like when I talked about being like the jerky guys that get laid tho.

Dosent like me trying so hard at the cost of changing myself.

I'd stay the current me for her.

She thinks I should wait for the right person at the right time, well I'm convinced she is the right person, whenever that time is.

So am I just stupid to try or is it worth a shot?

You're in a relationship with a girl you really love, and i mean "Real Love", she is just sooo perfect for you, anything you would ever ask for are all in this girl. While you suddenly know that another girl (which you barely know her) loves you, and you know that this other girl could change your whole life upside down, and you wouldn't have to worry about any thing anymore, by just breaking up your relationship and be with this girl.

Would you choose your love of your life over money, or would you choose money over your love of your life?

This question is mostly directed to guys, because i need guy's opinion about it, but girls are welcome as well! And because it happened to my guy best friend, and i thought to take this to gag, to see which would others choose, altho the guy has already taken his decision about it.

Facials, nails, hair, expensive clothes, shoes, hand bags, accessories, jewellery women are so superficial and plastic. Oh did I forget to mention plastic surgery, breast and butt lip nose augmentation. Are they doing all of this to impress us men and make us pursue fornication procedures? They go through a lot of trouble just to be the flaky aloof and cold they are constantly rejecting men and pepper spraying their eyes or friend zoning them. Men on the other hand dont worry 1 % about their looks as women do. My grandfather told me men are naturally beautiful we dont need makeup.

I’ve been seeing this girl Chantel for just over a month. Chantel has made me really happy. She cooks for me everyday after work, massages me before bed, drove me around when my car failed, and offered to buy me a laptop 💻 if I go back to school. Chantel does a lot for me and always wants me at her house. We spend almost everyday day together. She even told her dad about me. Which she claims she hasn’t told her dad about anyone in years.

Things are going good, but. There’s a major issue. Her best friend is this guy named Godfrey. I don’t care if my girlfriend has male friends. But it’s just awkward when they’re super close.

Chantel n Godfrey have spent lots of time together in the past. She always talks about him and even calls/texts him often. She asked me if her relationship with Godfrey worries me. I didn’t respond because I think it’s too early in the relationship to talk about other guys. When I didn’t respond she said “you don’t have to worry about him. I’m not even attracted to him”. Since then, she’s hasn’t mentioned Godfrey as much.

About a week ago we went to a party at Godfreys and his friend made a joke about Godfrey smashing Chantel before we dated. Even Chantels own friends ask her if she’s ever had sex with Godfrey.

What’s makes me even more uncomfortable is that the she’s moving into the same apartment building as Godfrey. She said that’s the only place available rn. And that it’s just temporary. She gave me an extra set of keys and told I can come over whenever I want. I’m moving back home with my parents if I go back to school. She wants me to move in with her instead.

I like the my relationship with Chantel but her guy friend makes me very uncomfortable. I don't know if I break up immediately or give it some time.