My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year, initially we did start off as just friends with benefits but we ended up developing feelings and began officially seeing each other. Earlier this year I had caught him talking to someone and we broke up for a month, he came back and apologized and admitted he just liked the attention and wouldn’t talk to girls like that anymore. He was very sincere and has changed a lot, he’s more attentive and makes a point to keep in touch with me throughout the day, he put my finger print in his phone as a sign of trust, and shared his location. It’s been 4 going on 5 months of us being back together. I know he is trying and that he loves me, but the other day he added a girl he didn’t know but knows one of her friends on Instagram I asked him he said because she went to the same gym as his friend. He’s added other girls this way also. As I said he is trying he’s done things to repair my trust, but this bothers me, I’m trying not to be insecure, but his past behaviors haunt me. I don’t want to be crazy I don’t want to go through his messages and worry about who he’s adding. Help please
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No. STOP right there. Jealousy is beautiful. Be as JEALOUS as you want. Be as "insecure" as you want. If he can't adjust himself in a way that makes you feel confident with him, then he's not the guy for you. Never suppress these emotions.0
He’s an insensitive jerk that doesn’t care how you feel. This is very bad taste for him to do this0
Stop being a crazy paranoid jealous wench or you WILL lose him.0
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No, you’re not crazy, but social media is not real life.10
You sound insecure. So what if he adds females on social media. My boyfriend does the same thing, you have to be secure with yourself. You have to trust him. You’re overreacting.0
You need to stay off FB and instagram0
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I feel you, I myself is in the same situation right now.. I know he loves me, I know he cares, but sometimes he's just so sketchy, he keeps his active status off on his fb, he has tons of friends that mostly are girls, he won't share his other fb account with me, he even comments on girls' my days saying "wish you were here". and sometimes i just dont know what to do.. we already broke up once and got back together, he proved to me that he loves me, but i just overthink coz i dont see the whole picture and what he really is with other people.. and I, too am going crazy.