Is my boyfriend obsessed with another girl?

[Anonymous]

My bf has a class with this new girl who has been at our school for 2 months. my friends has a class with them. Anyway they say he never talks her but he frequently checks her out and said things behind her back such as "she's pretty hot. I'd fuck her anyday. I just wonder if she wants me. God I would so fuck her." Apparently he listens in on her conversations sometimes and when he talks to people he look at her and once they were assigned partners and he seemed excited. And people say that he looks at her when she passes his desk, when she talks and when she enters the classroom. Also my BFF said he grins and half smiles at her and tilts his head towards her and he points his body in her direction during class occasionally and they overheard his friend ask him if he was still with me and he said "ya I'm still with my girlfriend but I'd still fuck her. she's so hot"

Yes he's obsessed with her

No he's not obsessed with her

[xapplebottom]

If you haven't watched Two Can Play at That Game, you should watch it lol.

Also, he sounds like a real douche, break up with him and find a guy who'll treat you like a queen! xx

[originalname98]

lawd... it doesn't sound like he's obsessed with her per se, but definitely noticing her. I'd warn him to watch himself and remember that he's in a relationship.

[Asker]

how do I do that without comin off as a crazy girlfriend?

[originalname98]

It depends on how you say it.. don't be aggressive, even if you are annoyed, but DO approach him like you mean business. Tell him that you noticed the way he looks at her and the things he says about her, and that as his girlfriend, you obviously don't appreciate it. If he's paying as much attention as you say to her, and even after talking to him he doesn't let up, i'd say you should prepare to dump him.

[la_femme]

Dump him. A good boyfriend would never consider cheating.

[Anonymous]

Fuck him take all his money and dump him

Its a bad opinion
so act wisely

[Asker]

He doesn't have momey lol

[Asker]

money!

[Opinion Owner]

Ohh. Thats a bad news

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[lLJosB]

break up with him proudly, don't hesitate. Nothing worth ur emotion now...

[dreamergirl94]

BREAK. UP. WITH. HIM.
Now.

[Anonymous]

Break up, a good boyfriend never act like this

[Anonymous]

Two words : kill him

[Asker]

uh no