A girl is obsessed with my boyfriend, advice?

[Anonymous]

I have been going out with this guy for a couple of months, and he has been friends with this girl longer than he had even known me. I don't mind him talking to girls, I'm alright with that, but she acts like she is going out with him. She refers to him as her own and tell him how much she wants to sleep with him. I know that he isn't like that towards her, so what should I do?

[Anonymous]

How did you know that he's been talking and behaving in front of him as how you described? Tell him nicely that you are not comfortable with her behavior towards you. After all, you are his girlfriend and you hope that he can understand where you are coming from. If he's a good enough boyfriend he would understand. If he still keeps on doing he's either a guy who's not too particular with who he is going out with (even if they are not girlfriend) and you have to decide whether

Alternatively, schedule more things to do with him, and perhaps take him to meet some of your friends who you really trust and make your relationship with him more interesting. That would probably take away some of his distraction towards that girl. Just be careful not to be too controlling and possessive and give him some breathing space! Hope this helps and feel free to let me know should you wanna talk more about it :) Good luck!

[Anonymous]

get your boyfriend to talk to her and say that he doesn't like her saying all that stuff

[Asker]

he has done lots and she just carries on

[Opinion Owner]

ok then, start to ignore her, don't talk to her maybe delete her

[turbonergrodude92]

I really think that communication is the key here... if your not happy with him talking to this other girl then take it up with him and explain how you feel. I was going to say that your most probably being paranoid up until I read the part where you said that she calls him her own... I don't know about you but that wouldn't be okay with me.. Do you trust your boyfriend?

[Asker]

yeah I trust him 100% I have tried telling him that it bugs me and he was like I knew that it would do and he said that he has told her thousands of times that he doesn't feel the same and that she needs to back off, he even said that to her before he met me. But she just won't leave him alone

[turbonergrodude92]

Do you like this other girl? Or don't care what she sees you like?

[Asker]

I don't even know this other girl, she talks to him on Facebook so I see what she writes on his wall

[turbonergrodude92]

hmmm.. okay well you could take your beef up with her directly and sort it out... do what ya gotta do

[Asker]

im not the confrontational type though, I wouldn't know what to say