My guy friend is possibly obsessed with me?

[aaliyahwpearls]

So I’m a teenage girl, there is this guy that me and my brother used to play among us with in the early pandemic. He started catching feelings for me and has been addressing it to me ever since, I had REPEATEDLY told him that I just want to be friends, he says he understands but keeps talking me to give him a chance, he always wants to see me and he is always asking my brother to put me on the phone with him. I have ran out of ideas and I don’t want to hurt his feelings at the same time, he is COMPLETELY obsessed with me, HELP!!

[AncientWisdom]

You’ve stated to him your not interested you said so you need to tell him not so nicely be very assertive tell him the whining has not helped his case all he’s got on his mind is what your packing and hormones are flooding his male brain. In the male brain the sexual part of the brain is 2.5 times bigger in a young male who has no idea how to handle this sudden flood it takes some adjusting. Females don’t know there is a biological cause for this behavior. Now you do. He’s still your friend but after this rejection he won’t be you’re probably his first crush after you break him down he’s not going to like you very much and will probably not like you type for the rest of his life but it sounds like you don’t care. So tell him and be firm or he won’t get it. Don’t leave the door open either tell him no. Then go slap your brother upside his head and tell him to talk to his hormone ridden buddy. And quit setting you up to deal with his adolescent bullshit. If that don’t work tell dear old dad if you got one he will straighten it out right quick. I put the fear in horny boys. As my nieces and granddaughters will tell you. 🤣🤣 I understand them though as I once was one of those pathetic creatures it passes and they change just like you will.

[Seangreen]

Tell him you're seeing somebody even if you have to get one of your other guy friends to pretend even if it's just for a little while and just stay the hell away from the guy cuz that's kind of just fucking creepy like if he doesn't get the hint by this point he ain't never going to get the hint

[ChrisMaster69]

You need to be firm and direct with him.

Explain that you don’t feel the same way.

Explain how it’s not good to keep pushing things.

As you brother knows him, it may also be an idea for him to drop a brotherly hint to the guy.

[Vikkrram]

Why you don't want to hurt his feelings rather than giving a false hope... Just say to him that u don't feel like anything he feels for you... That's it.

[mark000h]

Be firm. Tell him you're not interested in him like that.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Tell him you got a boyfriend and already taken and serious scare him away

[nawtee_me]

well no does mean no. Although at that age hormones are going wild and often the little head thinks for the big head...

[LegendaryIcon]

no such thing as "just friends"

you know it. you just refuse to accept it

[OddBeMe]

Yeah time to end the friendship. Do it slowly, eventually ghost him.

[In_Trance]

Maybe