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Is my male best friend obsessed with me?

This is something I really didn't want to come to terms with but I'm starting to think my guy best friend is obsessed with me.

I've known him for 4 years and to behind with we weren't that close and were just mutuals in the same friend group. Louis was very much the crazy, party boy in the group. Whilst I was always the responsible, mum like figure in the group.

Eventually the group fell apart after 2 years because of silly things that's a complete other story. We all still talk besides one person but we don't really hang out anymore.

I was going through a hard time and Louis was the only friend who stuck by my side and helped me out something I'm extremely grateful for. After that I realised even though me and him are extremely different people he was a really good friend and someone I should keep by my side.

Louis comes from a very underprivileged, unstable background and suffers from a lot of mental illness. We've been through a lot together and myself and are other friend ryan have been there for him a lot.

Louis had girlfriends before and I've even become really good friends with them too. Louis can be a lot to handle as to why these relationships never last. I always seem to be the only one who can get through to him and make him listen and even his friends and family would say that too.

He came to my wedding and has met my husband and he says he sees me as a sister. We've had many people question are relationship or mistaken us for a couple but we've both been very open with each other and said but we don't see each other that way and we have a sibling like relationship.

The only thing is he's constantly messaging me and wanting my attention and if I don't give it to him he thinks I'm ignoring him. J spoke to are friend ryan about it and he says he doesn't get that from Louis and but he must only be doing that with me.

I literally see Louis everyday as he's a cleaner at my work so I don't understand why he feels the need to text me non stop.

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11 mo
Why is everyone so nasty and bitchy in these comments. I'm a married woman and I just basically said my friend is poor and struggles with his mental health and your all making out as if I'm either making this up and it just some romance fantasy I've came up with. You people are thick and obviously have nothing better to do in your life then be rude and a bitch to people for asking a question on a site for asking questions
Is my male best friend obsessed with me?
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