Is this guy obsessed with me or possessive?

[Anonymous]

The guy in question is a friend. He claims to have no romantic interest in me however we kissed once.

Once he saw me with my boyfriend and was upset but remained silent. Upon questioning he said ‘your body belongs to me only’ and that I should never have sex with my boyfriend. I ignored and thought it was a joke.

Fast forward few months later, his friend wanted to take me on a date. He was like cool but didn’t give my number. Later when he knew his friend was serious, he bitched about me to the extent the other guy (s) don’t want to date me. This happened twice. So I cut off contacts.

Furthermore he was angry and upset when he came to know I hooked up and disconnected all contacts with me. He came to know of it in a party where my friends happened and they told me. Later when he came to know that was just a rumour, he contacted me again.

[DoggyDude]

Why do you care? always the first question to ask yourself.

One has to presume you do care, because your asking here. So the next question is, why are you so concerned with a guy that isn't your boyfriend?

So, people saying stuff about you does very little to influence people against you vs the way people find you or what they can believe about you in what others say. So, I very much doubt other guys don't want to date you because some guy has 'bitched about you', that's very unlikely, if a guy likes a girl, they will not tend to be put off by gossip and bad mouthing (unless that is, they see for themselves whatever accusation is probably correct via their own experience).

The guy sounds jealous and posessive, if he's trying to 'reserve' your body. Though possibly the fact he's said that means you have already established somewhat of a reputation for maybe being potentially a bit free (possibly); That said, bullying can happen, and sometimes reputations are undeserved (for example a person wishing to get revenge, but like I commented earlier, this would not put off guys interest and might even increase some guys interests).

[boggboss]

Clearly a shutty friend who things he should be allowed to have u as a backup option or fir us attention

[boggboss]

I would say he is both

[laly520]

he is player
not really good friend