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I'm a 22 year old Filipino dude born and raised in Miami. It's been hard throughout my life to even get a date although I'm making very slow progress. I've only been on 4 dates. It's a very materialistic city full of gorgeous Hispanic women that are a little out of my league and I tend to go for those girls lol. I prefer Hispanic women but I get nervous on what they might think about an interracial relationship even though I can pass as Hispanic looking. Women have many options here as well and tend to choose someone else over me. I'm decent looking and workout a lot. I've had some success but most of the time I fail and have to start again. Recently, I've showed clear interest in a couple girls and they all went on to choose a different man and it was very discouraging. It's mentally and sexually frustrating. My friends are all white. I like country, classic rock, football, basketball, drinking, smoking, and dive bars instead of clubs. I'm working with a min wage salary while I'm going to nursing school and honestly I DO want a relationship because I've never really been in a serious one. How should I change my approach? Any advice would be cool.

I've never had a date in my life, kissed a girl or had sex before... all because I have approach anxiety. I am graduating college in a few days, so I am trying to get out to the bar/club scene for the rest of the week to try to talk to women.

Ladies, what do you feel when a guy approaches you? What if he dressed well, is courteous and just a nice guy.

For example, what if a guy said this: "Hey there, how are you doing tonight?"

Would that bother you at all? What if you were sitting down with your group of friends and a guy tried to approach you?

I want some opinions and explanations as to why not or why this would bother you.

Not to brag but I'm a good looking guy. They say I'm a cross between John Travolta and Ricky Martin but in their good years when they were in their twenties. Everywhere I go women approach me. It's crazy I sit at the bar and they approach me. I hardly ever approach them. Is it my CLS 63 AMG parked outside? But anyway a lot of my friends have changed towards me. I think it's because I get a lot of girls and they envy me. It's not my fault they're suckers who just stand at the bar talking about football stats and don't talk to girls. Do you think there's something wrong with me never to want to settle down and date as many women as possible forever?