Why do women "see through me"?

[Anonymous]

Have you ever walked past someone before, and even though you see them walking past you, you continue walking straight ahead without making direct eye contact with them or really acknowledging them? That's what I mean by "See Through Me"

People used to tell me that women could not resist a man who dresses really well. Here is how I dress on the regular basis, including bars/clubs:

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I am not great at approaching women, so I rely a lot on my looks and fashion to get them to approach me or ask me questions. Even when I am the best dressed guy at the bar (this is the college bar by the way), they never seem to notice me at all!

Why is this? Would you notice a guy that is dressed like this?

[Anonymous]

Man, clothes don't matter. I would even say looks don't matter. I know a dude who dresses like you and gets no chicks. I know bummy ass dudes (exaggerated) who really pull. As long as u ain't a hobo, (even that won't stop sum doods), appearance is irrelevant. And subjectivity from one chick to the next.. They don't all want a GQ dude.

[Anonymous]

Dude, girls act that way to most of us. In fact, the higher-class or hotter you look, the more most of them will try to pretend they don't even see you at all.

Try dressing a little more casual, that's almost pretentious attire for a college bar.

[Asker]

I go to class, work then go to the bar after. Besides, I like to think it helps me stand out from the rest.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, that's fine, but you're still going to have to deal with learning to approach and get rejected by women. I'm a fairly attractive, well built guy, women almost never approach me.

[523206720]

Girls don't usually notice guys they don't know - even if they are super hot. Girls need a connection to feel attracted to somebody.

[Asker]

Lol. Really. So... if they don't know me, I'm pretty much a ghost to them... they can't see me?

[523206720]

Yeah. I don't care if he is super hot and has a harvard t-shirt on - if I don't know him - I don't care that he exists.

[Anonymous]

I have better things to do then stop at state at guys. I actually have a life

[Asker]

Oh, so when you are at the bar or club with your friends... you're not looking at guys? I call bullshit. I see girls staring and hear girls talking about guys on the time.

[Rachaelxo]

I would find the whole suit thing a bit intimidating to be honest.

[Asker]

Afraid of success?

[rocelot]

You could wear trash bags held together with duct tape and string wearing cardboard glued to your feet as shoes and still puck up chicks. You don't even need to say anything charming, just exude confidence. Your using your dress as a shield. My advice wear the shittest clothes you got, go to the nicest bar, and get a little drunk. Next time put on some nice cloths and stop giving a shit about how you look.

[Anonymous]

its weird to dress like that all the time. women are attracted more to looks and personality than clothes. and if you feel invisible then you should make sure your confident and you make eye contact at all times cuz girls like that