Why do women think they are visual?

[Anonymous]

Lol I'm convinced women aren't visual, first of all most guys are ugly or average facially, some may look decent but not anything to kill for.

Also if women were visual why would they factor personality over looks lol. Most girls I've talked to call me ugly or average then all of a sudden they start showing indicators of interest.

If u dont like a person, why are constantly around them and enjoy their company, slight touching etc. Yeah right "I'm visual"

Gold diggers already negate the visual thing. How many gold diggers have u seen mainstream that are guys?

Even for billions of dollars I am not sleeping with a 50 year old women and I'm not getting her pregnant like a lot of gold diggers.

Back then we use to pick men based on needs and status and other options. Now we got thots acting like you need a man that's sexy af, when in reality, all men look the same

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Let's add on to the fact that a lot of girls are quick to turn a attractive guy down if he's shitty as a person. Same thing as playing games with them too because if u really wanted that attractive guy, u wouldn't be making it hard for him.

What man is gonna turn down sex with a 10/10 even if he treats him like shit.

Women literally only want a personal connection to you

Personality and looks dont matter unless ur hot or ugly as hell

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@Pamina
I'm not 30, and I already had a girlfriend i literally said that and I'm 16 by the way.

It's funny how your assuming so much and clueless? I'm not clueless and nobody finds men complicated. Men are easy to get.

> if ur hot, men flock, simple.

Not ignorant, just facts is facts. Dont say looks is what matter, when u can get a girlfriend easily without.

Off me virgin, go get a boyfriend

[Alpha09]

It's a mix of both honestly. And it varies from women to women. When it comes to psychology gold diggers don't care because it's about the money. We all know they would prefer a hot guy with money but it's not about the looks in that instance. Now personally I'm gonna go for the hottest guy in the room if I think I have a shot. If he's cocky ok fine, I'm just fucking him. So you see it really just depends on what a girl is looking for. I may go for the hot douche, but I'm not dating him. If I was gonna date someone I would look for somebody who I could stand to be around for more than an hour. This guy might just be cute. Not hot, but he can hold a godamn conversation. If a woman truly isn't visual and the guy isn't attractive there's something that she finds sexy about that guy that others don't see. Obviously these examples are a bit stereotypical, but you get the idea. What goes on in each and every woman's mind when it comes to attraction can be complicated. I never really liked facial hair until recently and now I'm starting to like it. Preferences change. My point is the scale of how visual each individual ranges. That's why you see some chicks going for super hot guys exclusively. Or the other girl who only dates down. Everyone's into something different.

[Asker]

Every girl tries pushing the narrative that you have to be cute to get a girlfriend. I highly disagree with that bullshit

[Alpha09]

It's bullshit for some definitely. I've seen some couples and the guy is far from cute. Depends on who you talk to.

[Asker]

Most guys are below average to average and a few are just somewhat above.

It is bullshit because a lot of girls are willing to easily turn down a good looking dude if he's shitty. It just goes to show girls need more than looks.

If a girl is shitty to a guy she's never gonna get turned down as long as she looks good.

Truth is truth.

[Gisellebibabs]

Women need more than good looks.

[Pamina]

I didn't even read past your first sentence because you already lost me there. I doesn't matter what you think, you don't know what goes on in women's minds just as we don't know what goes on in men's (or in your case, boy's) minds.

I'my very visual. That's a fact.

[Asker]

So basically your trying to say psychology is irrelevant. I dont gotta be in your mind to know or not.

[Asker]

Most of the time we know women dont know what they want

[Pamina]

That's not how psychology works, kid. You're talking about an individual's perception and emotions. You don't get to decide how someone else perceives and feels things. You're confusing psychology with telepathy. lol

"Most of the time we know women dont know what they want"
- We? You mean you and other clueless boys and men? Haha, yeah I know exactly what you guys believe to "know". So tell me one thing, do we women also get to tell you how you feel or is that a one way bullshit street?

How old are you? 13? 14? Even for a teenager you're extremely nonreflective and ignorant. It's actually kinda amusing how you think you know anything. lol

[Pamina]

But it's also clear to me that you're just yet another troll. You're probably some 30 something year old incel living in your mom's basement. So much for your expertise in women. :D

[Gisellebibabs]

He’s not trolling

[MissKittyz]

Which women told you they were visual? It is biologically determined that men are way more visual creature than women. So what are you asking if you already know the answer?

[Asker]

Plenty of women here and irl.

"Ew he ugly"

"Damn he cute"

When girls say these things, I just look at em and dont take em seriously, because I know for a fact if a below average guy walked up to girls and he looked passable as a human, he would get pussy above his look

The only reason women care about looks in some settings is because of the status it will give them. Once a women is living a normal life like having a job and shit, she's not gonna care about looks unless the guys ugly as shit or hot as fuck

[Asker]

Connection and dominance like height dick size and muscle

[Anonymous]

We are somewhat visual, just probably not nearly as much as men. Like I have to be physically attracted to someone to date them, but it’s emotional connection that makes me want to sleep with them.

[Asker]

Only visual when a guy looks really hot, after that, every other guy just looks the same as how you would look at a pencil or chair.

I mean being really ugly stands out but the below average to above average guy means nothing in terms of looks

[Opinion Owner]

That’s not really true at least in my case.

[Asker]

I guess it's not true for all women but I find you guys hyprocrites because you guys would say you want to be attracted physically to the person, but then your fine with settling with someone who's below average or average.

[Anonymous]

Under 18... What would you even know about women, son?

[Asker]

A lot. I had plenty lol

[Asker]

Women dont even know themselves, they would say one thing and do the exact opposite, this is why we think y'all complicated

[Asker]

Dominance and status, height and frame. That's all. Unless his face is good as fuck, no sexual attraction is gonna happen

[jeemm]

If you can see it, it's visual.

[Asker]

No your not visual. You see a guy the same way you see a chair, sofa, pencil.

[jeemm]

I do? Never knew. It's good you know me better than I know myself. Thanks 👍

[Asker]

Your acting like women know their wants. You can get mad at me all u want but at the same time I seen enough to come to a consensus

[jeemm]

I certainly do but I can't speak for other women. Since you're not even a woman how can you even speak from experience? How could you possibly know more about how women feel than women themselves? If I want something I get it, I don't see how I could be misdirected in that.

[Asker]

Because I got called ugly by all the girls who liked me lmfao.

Crazy how my girlfriend called me that too but now she calls me cute and sexy and shit.

y'all always think your visual but not

[Asker]

And then I started thinking about how gold diggers and 30 year olds settle with just anyone, yeah looks dont matter for men, that's how it should always be

[jeemm]

You just contradicted yourself when you said they liked you even though they thought you looked ugly. Also all of my female and me like guys we like. Looks are just a subcategory belonging to that attraction. So far I haven't met a female who chased after guys only because of their looks.

[Asker]

Exactly because they aren't visual.

[Asker]

I didn't contradict myself at all. I shouldn't be getting girls at all lol. Ur basically not fucked as a below average guy.

Being a below average women? Oh we men are hella visual. she's not gonna get attention

[jeemm]

I'm just so confused now about what the point of your claims are.

[Asker]

That women aren't visual and they should stop trying to say they want cute, good looking guys.

[jeemm]

Well true compared to guys but I don't see guys as inanimate objects either. I'd prefer a good looking guy who takes care of himself and his hygiene than some sweaty fat pig who smells like pizza and garlic sauce mixed with sweaty socks.

[Asker]

The sweaty fat pig is repulsive, I said women are visual if ita stupidly obvious. Like obviously a hot model looking dude is gonna get attention and a fat dude won't.

But most guys are below average to slightly above, so looks dont matter for them

[Gisellebibabs]

Women are visual to a degree.

[Asker]

Nope I dont believe, otherwise I would've been single

[Gisellebibabs]

That’s why I said to a degree

[Asker]

Good lol, because so many guys are below to average

[Gisellebibabs]

Yeah and they still have a girlfriend. Men are visual though

[Asker]

Yeah I won't even deny that shit. Men are more shallow then women

[Anonymous]

bitter bitch, much?

[Asker]

Your annoying