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For the last few years I’ve tried have a more non chalant and “well later bitch” attitude when a woman does something shitty when trying to date. That is when they inexplicably ghost, stands me up on a date, unprovoked slights, acting flaky, assuming I’m okay with the friend zone, etc.

However acting like you don’t care is supposed to be the “alpha” way to handle that bs. I have to act like I got plenty of options and it’s her loss.

But the truth is DOES bother me. It adds up. It jades me. The level of disrespect I’ve seen from some women nowadays is appalling.

I HAVE started calling them out. I figure I had nothing to lose anyway. If she’s going to treat me like that than I’m not going to want anything to do with her. But it felt good to ventilate my frustration a few times.

Some of my buddies have said not to do that. Like that permanently closes the door with the girl. But seriously why should I cling on to any hope anyway? At least I got to have one last say.