Girls, Why do girls assume just because a guy is tall he will make her life perfect?

[Anonymous]

I never understood this notion that what makes a guy a man is to be 6 ft 2 and up. But if a guy said, what makes a woman a true female is the size of her large breasts, is that fair to say? Girls/women would get angry about a shallow assessment like that. Now, I understand this distinction of tall men is viewed as a "protector" a "guardian" but if you look at men who fought in the World War I and World II they weren't all tall men. When you look at the past of the ancient era, not all men were tall either. As a guy who is 5'9, I play competitive sports in leagues and have been knocked down and hurt but I get up and shake it off. I have seen girls pursue guys like this and they have been either horrible fathers or lazy or even dainty/girly in a sense. I am not saying that it's a bad thing, if that's your preference of what you want in a man that's fine. But understand I also have come across girls who unfortunately have guys who are bed ridden or can't walk, God tests us in many ways. I have no gripe about tall guys or what women want but I'm just saying look at all the perspectives. This might be rude but I tend to find that the girls who are confident in herself where she doesn't rely on 100% on the advice of what her girlfriends tell her, she's chill and down to earth are often the girls who don't mind dating guys like myself who are 5'8, 5'9 w. e. I'm just keeping it real. But I get the feeling posting this will still garner backlash even though I am not attacking anyone verbally I am just explaining something through my understanding. I mean currently right now we are in a pandemic and a recession, I am not freaking out by saying "OMG HOW AM I GOING TO DEFEND MYSELF I AM NOT 6 ft 6" because that would be moronic.

[btbc92]

Don't believe the lies of the internet and trends. Most women are not with tall guys over 6 feet etc. And many girls and women like me don't care for it, nor is attracted to super tall men. Not to discriminate them or anything. But the truth is truth. Overall, women just want a guy who is overall taller than her and is able to protect her. If he is short, confident, etc, then some women may be attracted to that, and less about his height. They would settle if they aren't naturally attracted to short men but usually wouldn't stray from their man. They would love him the same as if he is tall. Sadly I can't do that either way. Also, you have to remember. People were short back then depending on the culture, nation, and era. Nowadays people are giants. Genetics has changed. And I know what you mean by tall linky men.

"This might be rude but I tend to find that the girls who are confident in herself where she doesn't rely on 100% on the advice of what her girlfriends tell her, she's chill and down to earth are often the girls who don't mind dating guys like myself who are 5'8, 5'9 w. e. I'm just keeping it real." It is a good thing for girls and guys to have advice from friends, however, it's all about sound advice or worldly advice. And most people aren't friends, their entertainment. They use each other, cheat, lie, and steal from each other. Those are who you ignore and not pursue dating. Plus, I don't see how your height has anything to do with girls rejecting you. You aren't short, your tall. I don't know where your going, but unless you are too tall like for somebody like me, many girls don't see it as an issue. There must be something else or more going on for you not to get girls interested. But at the same time, if these are strangers, they don't know you. If you have physical requirements, so are those who you attract and want. Godly people don't care about the standards of the world. They go for what they got. All you can do is do the same. Just like I don't like lustful men lusting after my body, personality, mind or whatever, is the same you have to ignore such women.

[Anonymous]

Since when?