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The Bouncer at my favorite bar always stares at me all night, one time he caressed my arm as he walked by, another time he waved hello. I am married but super interested in this man. I found out the other night by a bartender that he knocked up his girlfriend and just got engaged. That same night we spoke for the first time, he was a total douche. He was a douche because he was saying stupid shit. Despite thinking he was a douche i found him on instagram and followed him. He blocked me. Am i crazy? Your thoughts? Should i step foot in that bar again? I love that bar by the way.. tell me what you really think dont hold back

Hi, I'd like to know what you'll think (especially the guys). Also, I'll leave out details for privacy.

At the beginning of this year I met this man (a client of mine) online. I'm a language teacher. I worked with him and got along great, I was living in Europe at the time and am still married and he is in America (where I'm originally from). After many complicated days I ended up telling him I was running away from Europe from abusive husband. Long story short, he helped me without me asking, literally saving my life and got me to America. We kept working together and met up in person twice, he was great.

Ever since then, we keep doing this:

- Whatsapp EVERY single day (not romantically tho), it feels as though we'd miss each other if we ever missed a day.. that's my feeling though. If I don't write first, he writes first
- Since he helped me I told him I would never charge him again, he still insists, but I think he's given up, we talk on the phone about 4 times/wk for around 1.5 hrs each time (not romantically, teaching, but we laugh tons)
- He is very generous, always offering help, checking in on me - we share lots in common (food, politics, books, humor, etc)
- He laughs everytime I do, even before telling him whatever I'm thinking about (I'm very giggly)
- we read each others' book recommendations and talk for hours about them.

About a month ago he was very nervous and told me some very personal things (he really doesn't open much about his private life). He has a girlfriend, hardly ever mentions her (has about 3 times, 2 out of those 3 were not good things and he kept telling me "I hope you'll still talk to me after I tell you this/I'm sure you'll want to forget about me..", he says he wants to stop his relationship but has failed, not sure why he even told me, but is making me wonder. We never flirt, I'm resisting, not sure if he's resisting as well. I'm sure his girlfriend doesn't know about me.
My family and I are forever grateful for what he did for me...