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I am very confused about this boy who I am seeing, we have been seeing each other for six months. I am moving to china in September without him which he only found out two months ago , and we started out as friends with benefits. When I told him I wanted more he started acting like my boyfriend. He said he was considering moving to china with me and he starts talking about where both of us are going to move when we graduate he said he’s either moving to china or my home town. Then I called it off telling hime how hurt I am as I can’t see him as often due to his busy schedule but then got back together , I did this multiple times. Couple of days later he starts acting distant, he's tell me this is because he knows it will have to end as I’m going to China, He then starts to flakes on plans. One night he says he doesn’t want a relationship with me and wants to stop seeing me as it’s not fair on me as I want to see him more. The same night 10 mins later he decides he still wants to see me as he would miss me and he would regret it. After that he starts opening up to me telling me about his uncle dying , his insomnia and his insecurities, But also says we can’t see each other us much. His friends tell him they don’t like me but he doesn’t listen to them. Last night we decided to end it he comes round my house crying and I tell him I need to tell him something important ( that I love him) and he says don’t say it I know what your going to say, he already knew I was going to say I love u without me having to say it , but he doesn’t say he loves me back. He said he wants to end it as it’s not fair on me as I want a relationship and he doesn’t and he wants me to be happy. He tells me that seeing me wasn’t about the sex and he actually liked me but he lost interest, and it would have to end anyway. We decide on the same night to continue to see each other but in two weeks time as he says feelings will die down which is a good thing. For some reason he can’t end it and neithe

From The Hite Report of Female Sexuality by Shere Hite:

"Women often said how much more important body contact and closeness were to them than org*sms...

'I would rather make out than screw. And it’s not the same if it’s just a prelude to screwing.'...

'If I had to choose between the two, I’d choose touching. I really dig kissing, hugging, fondling, looking at, and feeling the other person.'...

'General body touching is more important to me than org*sms. A good kiss, to touch each other in the middle of the night... A really good hug will take over an org*sm any day.'

'With my present lover, we spend hours caressing, touching, cuddling and hugging, kissing, and just resting against one another. It feels marvelous!'

'Hugging is really important to me. I also like kissing and caressing all parts of the body... I enjoy these activities more than regular genital sex... I really enjoy just holding each other.'

'physical contact in the form of touching, hugs, embraces, caresses, etc. is most important. I am more interested in having that kind of physical contact than I am in having sex.'...

'Physical affection and touching are much more important than all sex and org*sms.'

Desire for more touching and body contact was more or less universal... However... many women said that men usually did not like to touch except during sex...

'men most generally have but one end in mind when they touch you.'...

'my husband limits most of his kissing to sex-resulting situations. I like being held and kissed spontaneously, and playing around-but he doesn’t.'"