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So there is this girl that really did bad thing to me but is now asking me for money. A few years ago, she was really bitchy because some guy that she liked for years had a crush on me. She said really bad things about me to my back and to my face. She started talking about how I was fake cuz I had designer bags, brand name clothes, worked out, wore makeup, didn’t like tanning (I’m korean. We don’t like tanning). She was always talking about how I did so many bad things to her and made her feel bad. She talked about making me fat and ugly (wtf). She like made up stories about me and like tried to bring me down so much and pretty much made my social life hell. I had to leave and find other friends cuz her bullying.

Anyways, fast forward now. She is broke, has a child and husband with no job. I am wealthy in a nice house with a good husband. Now she is asking me for money like 10k. I mean I could give it to her but I don’t want to given the history. I personally am offended that she would just ask for the money without even apologizing properly. Like she needs to apologize sincerely in person and show some remorse before she asks for my hard earned money. I absolutely do not like her and I think she should go on welfare instead.

I’m mostly pissed about the fact that she has no conscience and would just brazenly ask for money instead of apologizing first. She also just plays victims and had the nerve to try and guilt trip me about things I worked for. She shouldn’t ask for things that she doesn’t deserve. Like she can’t treat someone like crap and then expect them to help later on. So entitled!

I don't know my biogical family is except my stupid mother.
My grandparents/ extended family on My mom side
they were Judging what clothes I wore ,
how tight they were ,
they also were talking to my mom and telling my mom stuff that gave away my protection ( I have a restraining order against my mother ) ,
they tried to break me and my boyfriend up.
They lied to my boyfriend and me
My grandmother smokes when she knows I'm really allergic to smoke
When I needed help ( just someone to talk to ) they wanted to commit me and have me all drugged up and etc.

My step dad side :
They are talking to my mom ( when I have a protection order against her )
They lied
They don't bother to help me
Etc ( much more )

I forgive them both but it just hard for me to talk to them because that is not what a family is supposed to do is treat u and ur boyfriend like shit. My mom side. They said something that made my boyfriend shattered and cried for days. I was pissed off