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I work at this place and sometimes girls will come in and they will not establish ANY eye contact with me WHATSOEVER. I'll droop my head a little to make eye contact, or I'll ask a question or two that will require eye contact but they won't make it, they will divert their eyes noticeably. It's a huge f-ucking turn off. They will look around but never in my eyes. They also look like they are pissed or have some raging mood swing issues. Sometimes they will keep adJusting their shirt, or crossing their arms and they will talk to me as if completely irritable of me even though I'm genuinely nice like my job requires. Before some wise a-ss says something like "Maybe you are too much of a nice guy" no, I'm a normal guy at work that provides good customer service and neither am I a sleaze to women that walk in. I just want normal human interaction in the workplace. That's all. I do like to build some basic rapport with customers like talking about the weather for instance, or telling them if they need anything to holler at me. I smile at everyone and I consider myself tactful at the workplace and easily approachable. But I just notice that sometimes girls will come in and they will be complete b-itches to me for no reason. Or they will try to say something witty and come off condescending. For instance, this girl just randomly blurts out the following, mind you I don't know who she is and never talked to her before

Scoffing: "huh, You're always working every time I decide to come in..weirdo"

Me: "No, maybe you just always come in every time I'm working"

I mean, the comment is so..blah, it's so meehh, but the way she said it was like, what do you mean by that and it's like, who are you?

Sometimes I get really annoyed but I don't show it, I remain calm and cool and just uphold good customer service, I don't give a cold shoulder back or get all mean right back because that's immature. If sometimes they get mean to me I'll make a joke out of it in a polite manner and then exit from the scene gracefully. I'm giving y'all some intricate details so we can rule out what is not the case.

Before some of you girls here accuse me of being sexist, misogynist, and heartless let me put a disclaimer NOT EVERY GIRL IS LIKE THIS, I'm talking about the ones that ARE. duh. There are lots of other girls that are normal, like, establish eye contact, smile or engage in some quick harmless chit chat, whateverthef-uck, but I'm not talking about them, I'm talking about the girls in the question.