He's so heartless or just insensitive?

[Anonymous]

yeah I haven't talk to him in a while and I miss him terribly but he wont' bother say hi or something. I don't know what happened to that guy, I know we haven't talk as much Because I'm busy and he's busy as well, But as I IM'd him he replied but only few words. I hate it.

He's so cold, and it hurts me inside. If only I could say how much I like him but I can't. I hate this feeling. He's so insensitive and just ignored me...I promised myself not to initiate convos but I was breaking the rules, Because I initiated to say HI first sighhhhhhhhhhhhh...I shouldn't have done it. If only I could tell him how much he hurts me inside he doesn't have any idea grrrrr. I come to accept now that he's just not that into me..sigh. Even though he's not saying it but I can feel it Because he just ignore me. What should I do, I can't move on.

[powerpsi]

Hey I think you did a good job trying to reach out to him one last time. Instead of wondering whether he liked you or not, him ignoring you even when you tried to initiate contact just proves it.

I don't understand why you fell so hard for him? Did he ever even show signs of liking you? I think you should be more careful with who you fall for because one-sided loves are painful and can be easily avoided.

In time you'll meet new guys and you'll slowly stop thinking about them. I dated a girl for 2 months that suddenly pulled away from me and it hurt, but a month later I got a new job, was around new women and nowadays I barely even think about her.

Just surround yourself with new people and soon you'll forget.

[Asker]

yeah Ijust knew him though and he is my crush, he showed signs he likes me by complimenting me and spending time to talk ..but there were days that we never talk anymore because I was busy and he's busy too and also because of time difference. Then after a month of not talking we finally talk but I see him On, he used to ignore me and now we talk again. But when there's a part of the convo I told him I miss talking to him, he wasn't replying anymore, so I just logged off. Grrrr...I'm so weak.