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Okay look, im not saying parents of autistic kids are in general mosnters but like any other parent they can be criticized and you can't sugarocat everything with "autistic kids are bad or difficult" becaus then that reflects poorly onthe entire autistic population adn causes unnecessary drama in society. NOT ALL parents do this.

here's what I mean. here's some common toxic things moms of autistic kids do and they deny or make excuses for.

1. Screaming for the slightest expression of anger. Wow, great emotional management control skills your teaching them, having a meltdown at there slight anger expression

2. Hypocritically get offended by there child over every little thing, but offend the child withotu a care in the world and makeit about there autistic inability

3. Tell them not to express themselves. Not to express there opinions or thoughts or opinons because they scare you or others. Great way to teach them to be autonomous.

4. Treat there opinions as crazy or faulty thinking

5. Tell them there jokse are wrong or stupid

6. Tell them there stimming is bad or creepy or shouting or screaming at them to stop stimming.

7. Blaming them when they get bullied just because your frustrated about a supposed problem behavior.

8. Telling them that there cousin or this other person is better than them.

9. Laughing at them for not wanting to gowith a activity they morally disagree with.

10. Telling them something is bad and then making themdo it.