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We met on the first day of grad school last fall and had an instant connection. At the time, she was still seeing someone from back home, but she wasn't too happy about the long distance thing. We ended up as co-chairs of a big event and spent a lot of time together because of that. She broke up with her boyfriend a couple months into the semester, but I did not make any moves as I did not want to take advantage. She had been approached by an older PhD students, and she seemed interested (her type), so I stepped aside hoping that whatever they had between them would just fizzle out naturally. And so it did. All the meanwhile, we kept hanging out and spending a lot of time together one on one. We've shared a lot about each other and have grown pretty close; in fact, she's by far my best friend at school. We've been on a number of date-like outings. When I sent her a bouquet of flowers and a sweet note for Valentine's day, however, she thanked me, but said that she just wants to be friends. Since then, I've tried to get over her, but we share so much in common and we always have the best time together. This past Friday , I invited her to the symphony and she accepted. Before the symphony, we swung by a special benefit party at a museum, and after the symphony, I asked her if she wanted to get a late night dinner and she said yes. It was like the perfect date, accept it was supposedly just as friends? I really like her, and she really seems to like spending time with me. What should I do to win her over? Should I try holding hands and being more touch-feely with her on our next outing? Or should I just accept that there will never be anything romantic between us? Thanks!

My gf broke up with me today because I just forgot to tell her that I had fallen asleep and that she has been waiting for my text message. I think its really stupid and she talked shit about me like telling me that I was dumb and ugly. We've been for almost 2 years, and we had lots of plans for the future and now I think that it will just be a thing of the past. We have been quarelling for almost 2 weeks but yesterday we were good together. There are times that I just dont feel needed by her and that I have to do the first move in texting whatsoever. Also, I just dont feel special around her, she takes me for granted and ignores my feelings, whenever I open up about our problems in our relationship she just tells me to cut your drama. She didn't even give a a gift on my birthday ( I'm not expecting it but thats what girlfriends do) and also didn't greet me on Valentine's day and Christmas. And she has been cold to me and unaffectionate. Im really having a hard time. Pls help me what to. What will be the best decision?