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Right. Long story short. We dated for a year 2014/2015. He was the one who was into me, pursued me, wanted to settle down, he adored me etc.

I was in a bad place at the time and couldnt see how I was treating him. He kept warning me to treat him better, but couldn't hack it in the end and we ended on VERY bad terms. I know this sounds mad? But I had so many issues with commiting to men at that time, although he was a good guy :(.

He was angry with me for months... even after months he was still mad. And I was mad too. He'd barely speak to me and any conversation led to an arguments.

Now it's been a whole year since our split. Tonight I saw him and noticed a mark on his neck. I questioned it (I'm pretty blunt) and he was relcuctant to answer. But he admitted flat out that someone had kissed him there. I was like... ok.

He said it had been a whole year since our split, he was drunk and he was down. So that's how the kissing happened. He was very quick to say he has no intentions of sleeping with anyone, seeing anyone or getting in a relationship. Neither did he intend to kiss this girl again. He is honest with me about these things, and I do trust him.

I wasn't annoyed with this kiss? Just a little... I donno. Anyway, we then went to talk about our relationship and how he'd been flirting months back and hoped to see things working out. But we were still pretty raw, so I guess things broke down as a result again.

He was very apologetic towards me tonight, wrapped his arms around me and gave me a full body hug. All of me was touching his body. He apologised in case he'd hurt my feelings and rubbed my back gently as he did so. Hug lasted about 10-15 seconds. Then he joked about me crushing him with my hug and how he 'bruises like a peach' to that I replied 'well, that's apparent!' It was all in a joking manner really.

Help? He's a person I have a huge soft spot for :

Do guys kiss girls and not really mean it sometimes?

In class, there's a guy that I like. I noticed him when I was laughing with my friend, and I caught him staring at me and smiling. Since then he's just been staring at me a lot, I don't know why he's staring so much. So anyways, his friend was talking to him, but I think he was saying something rude about me, and he said, "that's mean, don't say that." And he looked over at me. And for some reason his friend moved up a seat. The next class, he said something to his friend and the same friend turned around and said, "really?", facing me for a brief second. After that they laughed (kinda like giggling for some reason). Do you think he told his friend he likes me or something like that? Or does that mean something bad? Bc I know that his friend didn't like me from before the guy I'm interested in joined the class. (He seemed irritated by me). Do you think he decided to put how he feels towards me aside bc the guy I'm interested in likes me?

Guys, have you ever labeled an ex as crazy because it was easier than admitting that you played her, lead her on or didn't wunna take responsibility for any part of the down fall of your relationship with her?

Ladies, you often hear guys saying how they have a crazy ex, but their the one's attracting them! Bad Boys in particular like to play mind games to the point that a perfectly sane woman is driven mad -- and then doesn't want to admit that he damaged her in such a way that she may or may not have acted out.

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BACK GROUND STORY: Recently I found out that my ex called me crazy and I'm a little taken back by that statement. No one has ever called me "crazy" before + it hurts my feelings! After all the stuff this guy put me through mentally, emotionally and physically, leading me on, using me, taking advantage of my generosity the end result is a break up with no closure and him labeling me as crazy. I really had to think twice about that statement because "CRAZY" does not describe me AT ALL, which is why it hurts my feelings! I feel like the only reason why he said that is because he doesn't wunna take responsibility for treating me poorly and being a douche bag! It's easier for him to act innocent once he got all he wanted out of me and then call me crazy when he tricked me into believing he was emotionally available and then when I am all ready to fall in love he's PURPOSELY turned off his emotions so he feels nothing for me. Does ANYBODY know where I'm coming from?