Search Results: which girl should i choose

Which one attracts you more? Believe it or not, guys are really picky and outspoken about what they want in a female. I've talked to a few dudes and they've all been clear about what they prefer for someone long-term verses someone just for the moment. I was surprised at how serious they were about this. Like they really take everything into account when they're choosing who they wanna be with. One of the most common turn offs I came across for guys are when the girl is successful for her looks... so like she's a fitness model, a fashion model, or something that just doesn't involve education and paperwork. So does that mean you rather have someone who works at a 9-5 office job? Its not like there's something wrong with that but I think the creativity the girls in the "looks" department needs to be considered a little bit. Like rather than settling for a regular office job, theyre thinking outside the box and using the resources they have to be successful, almost like their own bosses. So lets say she works out, she's recognized on Instagram and now she's famous and gets paid through social media and her website. Yeah she's attractive which helped but he's not just settling down to an office or serious job. If she wants to be a doctor or lawyer then great but I dont think the other girls should get knocked down because theyre in the "beauty department." So what would you prefer, why, and what does it mean when guys prefer someone more serious and stable?

As you'll find online in articles, blogs, other forums, Q and A's, a percentage believe the guy should initiate, it's old fashioned and what works as girls are more 'shy' and guys are viewed as naturally the initiator. Yet you'll notice guys are the ones that chase, and girls are the ones that choose; in movies, series, and other forms of media the girl goes in for the first kiss. Girls are hard to read into and for them to choose a guy can avoid the pain of rejection if the feeling isn't reciprocated (which realistically we all fear rejection when we're vulnerable like that, right?)
So with all those different views placed out there, who do you think should make the first move?