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I've been talking to my boyfriend since June, and since we've met, and had our first kiss last month - we're in a relationship.
This isn't the only reason why I'm in a relationship, there's been romantic moments which just made me fall for him, like the first time we met he held my hand and was looking into my eyes, I could see how he felt for me, and before kissing me he put his hand flat against my chest feeling my heart beat fast, and told me I'm beautiful (maybe I'm just really falling for it, I don't know... but I find it romantic)

Anyway I'm really insecure because of my last relationship. I didn't even want to be in relationship ever again, but he crept up on me, he was talking to me everyday and night since June I guess I got attached.

The problem is that we barely talk on the phone anymore and he doesn't talk to me like he used to.

Like I said he would talk to me everyday and message me all the time, to go from that to not talking on the phone for 3 weeks just feels as if something is up - I've moved out for uni, I'm a 100 miles away - I'd expect there to be more contact because I'm far away.

Also he doesn't really message me much, sometimes it's a good morning, a bit of banter and goodnight. He's not romantic towards me as much as he used to be either. And the past two weeks when I message him (whatsapp) I can see that he's online but he doesn't open my message and goes offline then replies hours later even though he's been online in between, it makes me think he's talking to another girl, the attention he used to give me, he's giving it to someone else.

2 weeks ago (when all this started) I told him straight up that if he doesn't want to be with me then he's free to go, and I told him how I felt; that we don't talk anymore etc but then he says he loves me, doesn't want anyone else, that's why he's waited months to be with me etc and will make sure that we're still ok...

... But then he hasn't changed... it's making me really insecure and I hate it.

I have a MASSIVE crush on a guy who isn't really lady's man... I don't think he gets much action (you know, scrawny and super short, interested in peculiar things, reads a lot), and he is shy and introverted too. He can talk to me online like no problem and our convos have lasted all night into dawn. But then when push comes to shove, he may ask me out but flake or he will take forever to do so... or he'll drop hints until I make some assertion that YES I am interested in you more than a friend. It has been like this for 4 months since we met. I know he's into me; I'm into him. We don't see each other ever in person so it's all dependent on online interaction. I'm waiting until he contacts me again.. because he has in the past. How long can a guy have interest without losing interest, or even before he finally finds the courage to meet up and take me out? I think I'm psyching him out too since I'm a pretty attractive woman (if I may humbly admit (: )