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Before I start: I'm probably one of the most introverted, reserved and antisocial people you'll ever meet. My boyfriend is really social and extroverted. Almost all my friends are online and I met them through gaming. Most of my friends are guys (he has a lot of female friends as well).

I don't exactly know how to place this. I've noticed my boyfriend likes to check who I'm texting and what's the text about. Sometimes one of my friends will ask me how my boyfriend is or to say hi and when I ask/tell him, he'll reply with: "yeah I read it already".

I don't have anything to hide from him, but I've never ever read the messages he received from people. I know a lot of people will be like "are you hiding something because you don't want to let him read the messages?"
But it feels more like he doesn't trust me / doesn't even know me? While I've never done anything?

The second thing is that I feel he's kind of jealous / insecure about me having a lot of followers on Twitter? Not necessarily that but the fact random people send me messages. A couple of weeks ago he asked me if I didn't find it weird that strange people send me messages and before he went to sleep he told me to not text strange guys while I've never started texting random guys.
Note: I use Twitter anonymously, there are no pictures of me/thirst traps, my followers know I have a boyfriend and I mention him often, and I don't reply to guys who try to flirt.

Maybe he's just curious but it kind of stings? I don't know yet how to start talking about it cause it might seem like I'm hiding something from him

So I'm bisexual and I've been chatting to this girl for about 4-5 months now. We live in the same country but in different parts of the country and I've decided to go and meet her.

From day one, she was quite flirtatious. I've been honest early on that I'm into girls and when I felt she was flirting, I started flirting back.
We've had some really serious conversations via text where I've brought up things about us having kids together etc and she has responded. Whether she was playing or not, this is not something I believe a straight girl would do. She must be interested in my opinion. She's also not someone who strikes me as an asshole. Quite a wholesome person who has her head screwed on right.

My question though is around her interest. Often, she'll text first and I respond. Sometimes straight away or sometimes about 15 minutes later (no game. Just busy). With her, we'll text back and forth and then suddenly, she stops responding for hours, or even overnight. I find this bizarre. She is busy with other stuff but I'm wondering what's up with that. Like now, she texted me out of the blue and I responded 10 minutes later, I see her online on WhatsApp very quickly but she doesn't read my message. She is hardly ever online tbh which makes me think she doesn't want to come across as too interested as she may fear her attraction to me.
We Skype once a week and I've seen her visibly taken aback. Ok, it sounds silly but sometimes things do manifest on someone's face or by their mannerisms.

I am confused by her texting behaviour. As it stands, I'm due to fly up next week. She will say yes she will meet and we'll start discussing the future, in a roundabout way, then she pulls away again.

I know for a fact she is not seeing anyone else. As I said, this girl isn't an asshole.