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A girl I fell in love with fell for someone else. Now I don't care that she rejected me, If she's happy awesome but 2 things that hurt me the most is that when I started to fall for her I told her how i felt and even asked her if she wanted to be with me. She said yes but she needed time to heal over her breakup which happened that week. It hurts because I told her to be honest and tell me no if it was the truth, But she said she wanted me and I fell hard, we flirted and everything like a couple only we wern't then I found out she started dating someone else and when I asked her about us she acted naive towards it, like she never knew and had the nerve to tell me i shouldn't be mad and she wants to stay friends. The 2nd problem is the guy she's with. We dislike eachother very much, it's been this way for years and I told her how much we were against eachother and how i wanted nothimg to do with him, yet she had the nerve to be with him and when I aked why all she said was that our rival
had nothing to
do with her and laughed. She has been trying to make me feel guilty saying if I leave her ill be no diffrent then every other guy who liked her and who dated her who left her as a friend when they got rejected or broke up. Is she right? It's not that she rejected me. Its that she lead me on even though i gave her a chance to be honest about her feelings with me and she's dating a guy i want nothing to do with. What do i do? Any advice helps