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He's CPT in special ops, so he goes on missions, he gets unexpected calls and leaves during a date, I'm not supposed to tag him in pics, I check on his mother when he's gone because she worries, I go to his military parties where I socialize with his people, I make him care packages and always wait for him, I've started birth control for him. He's like a robot and never TALKS to me even after I confronted him. We've been dating since October and he acts like he loves me-Flies across the globe for me, buys expensive gifts, looks at me like he loves me. But he's never SAID the words. My bestie and his girl started dating after us and have exchanged I love yous. Regardless, I love him, so I was staying strong. HOWEVER, he told my stepdad he plans to leave the army for Stanford in Aug and never told me about it, so I was shocked, crying myself to sleep. My boyfriend sensed my distance and assumed I was CHEATING on him. The first time he asked me it seemed like he let it go. But he asked me again and we had an argument. I've NEVER cheated on him, HOWEVER, I am distracted by sb more direct with me, telling me he cares about me. My boyfriend apologized, explaining he was cheated on in the past. Now he seems to trust me again/happy, but I'VE been feeling like HE'S cheating on ME, I don't know why. Yesterday I suspected a strand of long hair in his bed, which I HOPE is mine but I considered taking it for DNA testing. He replied to a woman's comment on his pic with a kissy face and I checked her profile nervously, only to find she's in her 60's. I've never been supposed to tag him in fb pics because he says it's dangerous due to his job but last night I made a slip and he had to remind me, and I KNOW it's because of his job but I feel anxious about his female acquaintances not knowing about me. I think this mess is due to him still not communicating with me and never saying he loves me. So, I've been thinking maybe if I say it things can get better.

This has boggled my mind we met online.. he is the perfect guy in person! I understand in taking things slow we live 3 hours apart.. we talked online for 2 months before we met.. he told me he thought I would stand him up.. we met half way in between it was absolutely amazing..

Its hard for us to hang out he works 3 days on 2 off 11pm- 7am.. I work by schedule thats out six weeks in advance most of the time 10:30am -7pm or 12pm- 8:30pn.. over the phone we do not talk much he only has text now.. It feels as though its serious on my end but not on his.. let me explain what I mean.. he insisted on meeting my family I just introduced him as his name cause I didn't know what we are.. a month ago I have not met his.. he's been devorsed for 3 years.. he has a son.. he said his parents treat him like a black sheep..

When I aaked him what we are? he said im your man there's no one else.. told me he has a hard time trusting that im his dream girl just he doesn't understand the timing.. he explained how he took a loan to pay off her school debt and his she cheated left him got prego from another guy and came back cause he kicked her out.. he told her hed raise the son with her as his own.. 2 months after she has him.. she cheats again they got a devorse and its been 3 years since he's brought any girl around his family... I really want to be the girl.. like were together first meal I always pay my own way the first meal he said he was prepared to pay.. I explained its something I have always done and not many guys have ever paid for me so looking forward to the second.. then he opened up about the fact I deserve better that he's trying to build back up and I said I dont want you money I want you.. I got a job getting rid of my own debt wanting to get a mini home and in his area.. he shows in many ways he cares for me he's never said I love you.. he told me he wants to marry me and for my goals.. told me to not give up but let him no if I want some1 else.

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